ok so here is the story... my boyfriend of one year broke up with me. We have a son together and he has been feeling some changes on his opinion towards this relationship. He feels he is torn between me and his ex. I want to know if I should wait until he makes up his mind, or if I should just move on. If so how can I move on?
2006-10-03 20:00:56 · 8 answers · asked by SquirrelBait 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him to make up his mind, you or his ex. You can't have your cake and eat it too! You have a son now and he needs to have a stable role model to look up too. What kind of man is your son going to turn out to be if he can't make up his mind between his ex and the girl that he has a child with? hmm? You need to take the reins and stand firm for your son. Its all about your son now, not your boyfriend's ex, you need to focus on yourself now. Your boyfriend is playing games and needs to grow up. Hopefully he will be in your son's life. But it is up to you, to stop the games. You have the strength to stand, not alone, because you have a little one holding your hand now that you have to think of.
2006-10-03 20:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well he's not your ex for nothing..I say you should move on, just because he is not your mate does not mean he can't be an active figure in your son's life.He sounds very immature and non goal oriented, which seems like the opposite of you.. Move on and find you a real man who can take good care of you emotionally as well as intimately...He can't be torn the new girl probably won't put up with his BS like you did think about it, and then MOVE ON !!!
2006-10-03 20:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by chubbie dumplins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on...if he can't decide, you should decide for him and find someone who knows for sure he likes you and you only. tell him you can't be with someone who isn't 100% into you, especially if you have a child together and he still cant decide
2006-10-03 20:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by hwall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Concentrate on taking care of your baby. He needs you.
2006-10-03 20:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just move on.
hes slime. get him for child support and dont give him any nooky on the side. respect how you wish to be respected.
2006-10-03 20:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by jorluke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loved you than he wouldn't have any doubts. Just remember you are in control of your own happiness.
2006-10-03 20:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by pyt_tlc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make yourself availble and see what happens. Maybe him or someone else.
2006-10-03 20:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!
2006-10-03 20:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by Patrick C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋