I am 13 and my gf think that we can go all the way(we have been bf/gf 4 2 years) can i do it with a condom???

Question

now i have wet dreams b/c of fantasies

Answer 1

its not legal

Answer 2

"I am 13"

Are you ready for fatherhood at 13?

"my gf think that we can go all the way"

Thinks or knows? Which is it as thinking is different than knowing. If she nor you can say "sex". Then you both should be thinking twice.

"we have been bf/gf 4 2 years"

In another two years, you two could be with someone else. Another 10 years you two will not speak to one another. That is high school. That is college. That is life. Have to understand who you know now can completly change tomorrow, no matter how much you say you love her or she loves you. No matter what age, that is a fact of life.

"can i do it with a condom??? "

A male can have sex with out a condom. That is an obvious answer.

Should you is the real question as NO is the real answer.

Unless you want std's, put at risk for pregnancy more than there is....I suggest you always use a condom.

Has she and you discussed birth control? What about pregnancy? What about medical exams and check ups?

Answer 3

A girl cannot give consent to sex until she is 16 y/o. Before that it is statutory rape! If her parents found out and told the police, you would be arrested and have to go to court. You would be prosecuted as a juvenile but you would be prosecuted!

The success of condoms in preventing pregnancy and preventing catching HIV is somewhere between 80% and 87%. That means she could get pregnant the first time!

This is not fun and games, no matter what your friends say. I'm sure that you want to graduate from high school and maybe go to college. Why, so you can get the best job you can get and have the best life you can have. At some time after you finish school and get a good job, you'll want to get married and have children. If you have sex this young, you are putting all that in jeopardy by taking the chance of getting your g/f pregnant.

I had the same decisions to make at your age as you do. I waited and didn't have sex until I was 24 y/o. I'm 63 y/o now and I'm glad I waited. If I had started having sex at your age, I'm sure that I would have gotten a girl pregnant and that it would have ruined my life.

Answer 4

You should really wait until you are both at least 16 years of age... as you are both too young to fully enjoy and appreciate how special it could be between two people.
I lost my virginity when I was 15 years and regretted not waiting a bit longer, even though I ended up staying with the same b/f I lost it to for another 4 years!!
Please just wait a bit longer and experiment safely in other ways with each other... because once you both have lost your virginities, you have lost it for good! And some couples find that instead of it bringing them closer together, it can actually complicate things between them, between their friends and even family members like parents. There is alot to consider before you do anything...so try alternative ways of expressing yourselves to each other. At least till later. But in the event of actually following through with this act...then yes, please use a condom...and be very gentle!!

Answer 5

You can do what you want. But, you are not mature enough no matter what you think to handle the responsibility that comes with a decision like this. Sure she may not get pregnant but it will ruin your relationship with her. If she does get pregnant though your life is over. First of all there is no way a 13 year old can support a child. Secondly you are still a child yourself and all your freedoms in life that you have now will be gone. Trust me, I am 23 and my wife is expecting and things are tough for us and we have both finished school, graduated college, and have stable careers but this is a big step to take for anyone. Just think about this and make a mature decision. If you love her don't do it

Answer 6

It's very normal for u to have wet dreams but serious at ur age, do consider the consequence of ur action b/c condom is not 100% safe ya..

Answer 7

I think you should w8, firsly you are too young, secondly you obviously no nothing about birth control and STI's and thirdly where u gonna do it? In your bedroom? Ohh how romantic and memorable, especially the part where your mum walks in with your clean laundry. Why don't you wait a few years, do some research bout birth control and STI's and stick to forst and second base.

Answer 8

wait for sometime till your around 16. If she wants it so bad explain to her. Mayb she just wants sex outta you. The more u wait the more sex becomes better on t first time. For heavens sake urll are jus 13 , irresponsible and immature.

Answer 9

Who old is your girl??? But by you telling us your age i would have to say WAIT you don't want to grow up to fast.Wet dreams all the guys get them when they are hitting puberty, girls get period and guys get wet dreams.

Answer 10

THINK A/B THIS: CONDOMS ARENT 100% SAFE SO IMAGINE SOMETHING GOES WRONG. IMAGINE SHE GETS PREGNANT WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO THEN? ARE YOU GONNA BE ABLE TO SUPPORT YOUR CHILD? YOU CAN DO W/E YOU WANT JUST BE CONSCIOUS AND REALISTIC AND OBVIOUSLY USE A CONDOM!

Answer 11

If I were you I'd wait until your both older because if something happens, you 2 will be some young parents. well i hope my advice worked.Good Luck!