Now, this is not happening to me. I am just curious what you would do in that situation.
2006-10-03 19:50:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
kick his *** out for sure and never let him return..if they cheat once,theyll do it again..and whats more all the trust will be gone...never to return.and if someone truly loved ..they wouldnt cheat in the first place..but then you see alot of men think with thiere wrong head !!
2006-10-03 19:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by free-spirit 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It did happen to me, I decided that I was going to stick around long enough for the baby to remember me and then leave, and that is what I did. And I wasn't interested in having sex with hoebag because I didn't want to catch a disease, and she wasn't very keen on having sex with me anyway. The two times we did it in months I made sure I wore a condom. She was a sl*ut and she also abused me but I've got a beautiful child and her mother will always be a whore, no matter how she tries to remake herself.
2006-10-07 09:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would confront the spouse ,tell them what you know and then get on with your life leaving them behind to drown in their own self pity. If a person is having an affair , they don't love you or want to be with you. There is nothing your going to say or do to change their mind if they don't want to be there. Move on with your life and leave the trash behind. I did that and I'm a much happier man today . What goes around comes around and believe me one day it will happen to her..
2006-10-04 03:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by marshoberg55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Adam, If it is happening to you, do not be sad, let's have a contact coz I had the exactly same experience. (kumaladewi2078@yahoo.com)
Well, when I knew it, I just keep blaming my self until now.
Though hard, but I try to find another man.
2006-10-04 03:02:22 · answer #4 · answered by orchid palace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it happened to me. Got myself a consellor n a lawyer. Monitor him for one month to get a clear overview of things and consider my options from different angles. Tell him I know and gage his response and monitored for another month. Finally conclude that I am better of ending the marriage and give the lawyer the go ahead.
2006-10-04 03:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by peaceful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cry and move on. I just said my Grandmother's quote to another, but it applies to so many things, "This too shall pass." The original vengeance probably would apply in this situation, but the way I see it, if they chose that road, I better take the higher one.
2006-10-04 02:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is really a decision you need to make a bunch of strangers all have there own view points on that subject but no one walks in your shoes nor knows your lifestyle . Only you can really answer that.
2006-10-04 08:58:32 · answer #7 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this did happen to me. I refused to leave my home, so I made sure it was a livein hell for her in that house. It didn't take her long and she moved out. The divorce papers followed her to her new love, which by the way didn't last too long.
2006-10-04 07:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by R W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows it is much to complicated and not knowing circumstance it's really hard to say. I know some people say once and that's it but in reality we don't just walk away from a real true love without some thought.
2006-10-04 03:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It did happen to me. His *** got booted to the curb. He lost his damn mind thinking I was gonna put up with it. Last time I heard he was living with his mother. Oh well, that's not my problem.
2006-10-04 02:54:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋