5yrs my bf n I are togethr.Love was gr8 wen a couple of yrs i became over possessive always checking and asking all sorts of questions.He bcame mad with me,took distance... I wonder if he's texting and phoning other girls to divert attention!!?? i told him lets b frens he agreed (i told dis jst to hav him back bt he doesnt no) aftr 2days he texted me things are ok he then pauses for 2more days and text me!Is he cheating?Is he giving me a chance to change?wat does dat mean?can i hav him back thro frenshp??
2006-10-03 19:42:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You let him go already, but you never really let go. REALLY let him go for a while. Stop monitoring him, and start focusing on yourself and what makes you happy (besides him). You both need space to think right now, and it sounds like you both are just feeling chaotic. Let your paranoia calm down, let yourself calm down. You will have a more clear picture of what is going on when you have a little space first. Then you two can talk about getting back together if you want. Good luck!
2006-10-03 19:49:35 · answer #1 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you'll have to learn to type in English, or at least learn to spell, that's why that little "check spelling" is above the dialog box. If you broke up and are now just friends he isn't cheating. There is no commitment to cheat on. He has every right to, phone, text, even date whomever he wants to he owes you nothing. I suggest you grow up and learn more about relationships before you enter into anymore.
2006-10-03 21:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really have to just chill. He may have friends that are girls but if you have been going out with him for 5 yrs he might just want space in his life right now. You admit you became possessive, just stay cool.
2006-10-03 19:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by Cindy R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you agreed to be friends than what he is doing wouldnt be considered cheating. If you are together, the fact that you have to ask such a question is indicative of mistrust. Do you have a reason not to trust him?? Look at the big picture.
2006-10-03 19:44:37 · answer #4 · answered by Amynesiac 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wants some space because u are constantly suspecting him and he's getting tired of your insecurities. If u want him back then show him that u have changed. For now, just be his friend and give him some space.
2006-10-03 20:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure you want him back 5yrs of dating with no long term plans is a real issue to me.. I wouldn't care if he was cheating or not if you have given him 5yrs of your life and he is still not fully committed ditch the Loser and find yourself a real man !!!
2006-10-03 19:45:37 · answer #6 · answered by chubbie dumplins 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to get your life straightened out, before you start having serious relationsips again!
You seem very insecure and your going to chase away every "good guy" that you meet!
Get someone to talk to you, and councelling as why you are so "dependent and needy".
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-10-03 19:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He seems to be fedup with your behaviour and suspicious attitude.
2006-10-03 19:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just said he's not your bf anymore so don't worry, unless you get back with him
2006-10-03 19:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im sorry, but i really dont like the over possessive thing
2006-10-03 19:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋