We had been out clubbing the night before and I stayed at his house with my girlfriend and his girlfriend. I got up to have a shower the next morning and accidently walked in and he was in there and his girlfriend was talking to him. He had always bragged about how massive he was and how he was such a big man so I obviously thought he was hung like a horse but he wasn't. It wasn't very big at all and once I accidently saw it i sort of looked again because I wasn't expecting it to be so small. Now he is acting differently around me. He has gone the longest without bragging in a long time and he is being nicer to me and not so arrogant. I don't mind that much but something as simple as that has changed our friendship. He has a really hot really nice girlfriend so he has nothing to worry about but it is just weird. Do you think he will just go back to normal after a while or will it stay like this forever?
2006-10-03 18:58:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OB1 you are an idiot. You mustn't shower very often if you don't know that heat makes things hang lower. I have a girlfriend thanks it sounds like you're the one who is interested from that angle.
2006-10-03 19:09:03 · update #1
Mate, it's only weird
if
YOU make it weird.
This is a casual thing man...you saw his manliness, oh well...say something about it and move on so it's not different between you two okay?
"hey mate sorry I walked in on you the other day, next time I'll be sure to knock (ha ha), By the way, nice penis...just kidding...I didn't mean to look at it but ya know it's kinda hard when it's like out there (ha ha). Anyways make sure you lock the door next time, I'd rather not see you in the buff again (ha ha).
I don't know, somethin like that.
Remember
It's not weird unless you make it weird.
Okay.
Good luck and
be sure to knock before entering :)
PP
2006-10-03 19:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by Ponderpink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one , when showering . Your Penis does become smaller do to the climate change . For you to have seen it and making such a big deal of the situation. It sounds like your a little jealous of what you saw . Harping on it and bring it up on National Internet kinda makes you sound like your interested .... Maybe check to make sure your didn't grow when you saw his.....
2006-10-03 19:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by marshoberg55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're strong and secure enough as a person, confront it. Talk about it, sensatively, but discuss with him that you can't get what happened off your mind and maybe you will open him up to talk about some of his true insecurities. Maybe he needs a way out of it all and you are just the thing.
2006-10-03 19:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by yoyo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was a good lesson for your friend. He's still processing it. I think he will relax with you again, but maybe he will no longer brag or lie. We can only hope. All you can do is keep on being yourself. You are a good friend and a person of good moral character. Others could really have taken advantage of this situation--told others, confronted him, etc.
2006-10-03 19:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by ThatLady 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think of you may make a shaggy dog tale of it. while you're extremely stable friends that's going to bypass back to familiar. in case you forget approximately approximately it in spite of the indisputable fact that, there could continually be an awkwardness on your friendship. provide him a complicated time, i thought all blokes had sneak peeks on the hard besides?!
2016-10-01 22:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by greenwell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the kind of this that is good for him. He should have been more honest with you in the beginning. This tells me that he had been lying to you and trying to degrade you somehow by bragging about his manhood.
2006-10-03 19:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by CBRRider 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he has insecurities, and needs to deal with them, i personally don't care what another man thinks about the size of my penis, and if he does care, then he is not my friend. Truth be told, it will stay the way it is until he deals with his insecurity's
2006-10-03 19:06:18 · answer #7 · answered by ♫jmann♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time things will go back to normal. Have you considered talking to him about how uncomfortable it made you?
2006-10-03 19:03:04 · answer #8 · answered by stormyjoem 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Awkwardness got your friend's tongue instead of the cat. Time heals all.
2006-10-03 22:24:37 · answer #9 · answered by Sowhat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats why you don't freakin brag! lol. Well, its going to take a couple of days to process it all, but, sure it will be fine. Don't worry. Whatever will be will be. ha ha. Thanks for the laugh.
2006-10-03 19:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋