i specially envy my friends when they get more marks then me, but still i stand first in my class! Howz that?
2006-10-03 18:56:38 · 7 answers · asked by Winnie 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
stop taking things so seriously... its not that hard u just have change the way u see things....also u have to stop trying to be better that the rest of the people . i have the same problem, the good thing is that you know u have a problem....... try to breath slow when u start to feel the anger coming out.... remember the world wasnt created for u only so you won't always like what u see or hear ...so deal with it
2006-10-03 19:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by mexika_thug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but you need to just let all the jealousy, all the envy go. So what some has something you don't. Are you going to pout about it or do something about. No I'm not saying take theirs but create YOURS. At the end of it all it's not people, your peers, society that makes you happy. It's you that does. We as people get nowhere in life being jealous it just takes to much out of us. We something someone else has. Use that as motivation. Use that as a tool, a goal to shoot for. Then when you get it, it will be better for you because you had to strive to get it. Go one step at a time. You already know the problem. So fix it.
2006-10-03 19:10:40 · answer #2 · answered by Will Gotham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the competitive spirit in you. It's in your nature and the best you can do is control those feelings, and even if you don't feel it, force yourself to be graceful and congratulate the person that's beaten you in that subject. This will make you a good competitor and others will have more respect for you, also they will complement you when you do well, and it creates a much healthier environment with friendly competition.
Also remind yourself to appreciate the fact that you are first in class. That should help you not to take seriously that someone may have done better in one subject.
2006-10-03 19:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by stj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on your self-esteem. You are special and have something unique to offer the world. Don't envy other people...envy who you are. Visualize where you want to be by believing that you are already that person. If you believe it, then so will others, and you will be happier because you are appreciating all that you have to offer.
2006-10-03 19:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby because you are always trying to be better than someone. Thts probibly why you come out first all the time cuz you never settle for less than perfect.
2006-10-03 19:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by Jay-V-Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, If you cant find the humor, irony, and fun in it all...it'll wear you down
As for anger in general...meditate (thing deeply) on the true source of the anger...understand it.
Control your emotions through focusing on peace, relax...never let them/it steal your cool.
2006-10-03 19:01:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get better friends or smoke better pot
2006-10-03 19:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋