I love my husband very much, but he has a very small penis. I can't feel a thing. Its hard sometimes because I just am not getting enough pleasure. Any Ideas on what I should do?
2006-10-03 18:51:01 · 39 answers · asked by kayla21832004 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you need to explain to your husband that you are not getting much pleasure from your sex life and maybe you can spice things up with more foreplay and some toys.
He knows his penis is small and I think pointing this out to him will only hurt.
Sex is so much more than intercourse. You might look for a book called, "Idiot's Guide to Tantra" You and your husband could read it together and learn the many techniques and variations from the more contemporary forms of sex.
I wish you all the best and it took a lot of courage to bring your problem to this forum. I hope you find some good answers here and not a bunch of quick fix idiot remarks.
Peace and happiness...
2006-10-03 19:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by easinclair 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-22 08:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling it seems that this is a big issue that will get even bigger ( no pun intended ). Sexual satisfaction can be realised in many other ways such as touch, oral etc which I am sure you know. Most of the answers above have suggested a visit to a sex store to grab a few essentials which I would recommend to start with ( and take the husband its much more fun that way )
If you do love him then your searching together will find a way.
There is not much the poor guy can do to make it longer unless you contemplate a surgical intervention but that has a lot of risks.
So short answer is work on it together and try a lot of things. When that fails you may want to consider the alternative...... A new "bigger" man.
2006-10-03 19:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by Aussie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell him he has a small penis, he already knows this. Tell him that you want to try new things in the bedroom. Penis pumps, enhancers, pills, etc. will not enlarge his penis. There are; however, things that will help you:
1. try new positions. And keep trying until you find one that is somewhat satisfactory.
2.use toys. he can watch you using a dildo for a while before he penetrates you or receive oral sex while you use it.
3. stimulation to your clitoris during sex may bring you to orgasm. This stimulation can be applied using fingers, vibrators, or simple 'pocket rocket's (many toys can stimulate him at the same time)
4.concentrate on the pleasure you receive from other sex acts other than vaginal intercourse. Spend more time on oral sex, anal sex, foreplay, or whatever is enjoyable to you. if other acts become more enjoyable, vaginal sex wont be as important to you.
Incorporate all of these into each lovemaking session and you should be more satisfied.
2006-10-03 19:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by Memphis qt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I use to date this guy with a small penis and this is how I handle it. I had to start of with foreplay (if you know what I mean) which heighten my sex drive then I had him lay toward the edge, while I had one leg on the bed and rode him and if I didn't do that I would sit him on the chair and rode him. One day when you get a chance, go to when of them adult stores with your husband and find things that you both can (penis enlarger)use to have more fun in the bedroom.
2006-10-03 19:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by JO`NAE 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
One of the first things you should do is to talk to him about it. There are lots of ways to satisfy a woman besides straight up penis in vagina missionary position sex and you should try them. Sometimes just changing the position is enough. Toys are also lots of fun. The big problem you’re going to have is in getting around his pride .........I don't know how secure he is or anything like that so I don’t know how to advise you on that score but talking helps and communication is always important in relationships. The fact that your asking on Yahoo makes me believe you should probably go to the bookstore and get a couple of books on sex and read them, there are some good ones out there that are easy to understand and funny to read as well. Good luck…
2006-10-03 19:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by Bill O 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this was a problem then why the hell did you marry him?
I dont know if those pills on the market work or not but it's obviously worth a try. I cant believe you dont have a vibrator already. I'm sorry to say it but if this bothers you now, none of these solutions will help forever and I dont think the marriage will last. You need to talk it over and face facts before there are kids involved. (unless it wont reach far enough to plant a seed!)
2006-10-03 19:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by mixmaster 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
maybe have him do some extra foreply with you. or maybe introduce some toys you may like. you say you love him very much. Im sure your not the only woman out there thats had this problem im sure you can find ways to get around that and he can still pleasure you the way you need to.. check with your family physican to. she may have some advise .
2006-10-03 20:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 04:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get into positions in which you can squeeze your legs together and let him go deep. Also get his to stimulate your clitoris, that way you can orgasm and his penis size won't matter. Also make sure you indulge in lots of foreplay because the pleasure of sex is hardly connected to the penetration, its more in the foreplay and the clitoral/G spot (he can do this with his fingers) for a woman.
2006-10-03 18:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by DrSH 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋