he has 3 kids
2006-10-03 18:42:03 · 26 answers · asked by cleo_alter_ego 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think he should get him self fixed first so he can't have any more
children!
Once a cheater always a cheater, if she is cheating then why not? If she isn't having sex with him, why shouldn't he? That's part of marriage, having sex with one another! If she refuses, then the marriage is over, and she is getting her's, just not from him!
The concept that a woman don't look around unless a man has done something, is just so bogus! If you can use that excuse for a woman then you can use it for a man! Some women love variety as well as some men! It's no different!
2006-10-03 18:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
No. The wife should figure out along with him why they are not having any. Often is is lack of desire but not here. From the q the husband is wanting some and the wife is also - just not with him. Rather than both cheating while not having sex together they should divorce.
2006-10-03 18:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by gatzap 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not. No one should cheat in a marriage husband or wife. So if that is how the marriage is i too agree it is time to divorce or separate go your own ways before something like this does happen to you. I think if you did do something like this that you will ever forgive yourself and i know how the teaching is in the Bible adultery is never good.
2006-10-03 18:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by sammy 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
What's more fair to the kids? Living in an unhappy home (which studies have shown cause them to act out more and become more of a burden on society when they get older), or have thier parents divorce (which studies have shown signifigant commitment issues).
It's a tough choice, but I would have to lean towards the divorce. No child should have to suffer living in an unhappy home.
2006-10-03 18:48:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes thats not normal. she probably loves the other man and doesn't want to have anything to do with her hubby thats why she's not sleeping with him anymore. but the guy needs to eat he also feels the urges. and they have 3 kids.
Yes looks like they both have to go there seperate ways this isnt' working for either of them and im sure there miserable that way.
2006-10-03 20:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No because if his wife is cheating and he is too...they're both the same. My Mom used to say if you see someone eating crap that doesn't mean you have to eat it too. And I think both parents are incredibly selfish with three kids and cheating (or thinking) of on each other. Before they end up in a filthy divorce, its best to get marriage counselling otherwise the kids are going to grow up with a screwed vision of what marriage is like.
2006-10-03 18:47:10 · answer #6 · answered by DrSH 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No because two wrongs don't make a right and even if the husband cheats as a revenge, it won't fix the original problem so they either work on their marriage or get a divorce. One of the two.
2006-10-03 18:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No! Adults may screw up their lives but children shouldn't be the ones to pay the price.
If you are thinking about or having sex with that man, consider that he may be "demonizing" his wife so that he can have sex with you.
It is just not right. Both need to grow up so that their kids can grow up to be decent adults. Not like them.
2006-10-03 18:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by Kitiany 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's an hard one (no pun intended). Hell no! If you can't take it, think of the example you would be making for your children. Just leave her and be done with it. If you can't take it. You need to ask her what you did wrong to make her stray.
If the children are old enough (teenagers), and you know for sure about her. Tell them, make her feel like dirt and feel ashamed she's been exposed for what she's done. You might manage to get your girl back.
2006-10-03 18:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, he should get some good ol fashion sex and then get a divorce. It's not easy with kids, but he needs to stand up and be a man.
2006-10-03 18:56:54 · answer #10 · answered by NightTrainWooWoo 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋