My best friend is a male and he was trying to cheer me up after a bad break up,we got quite sloshed and one thing led to another and we found our self having wild sex,while I thought that would be it he says he is in love with me but I dont see him that way at all.But I dont want to lose him as a great freind.
2006-10-03 18:24:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell him how you feel. be honest. just like you said it to us, say it to him....tell him that you need him at the time and thank him for being there for you.
2006-10-03 18:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there there. i have been down that street. My boyfriend, earlier we began relationship, became distinctly a lot truly one of my perfect acquaintances. only be your self round him, yet attempt to expose some pastime. adult adult males locate it difficult to %. issues up, so that you only about could spell it out for them. if you're mushy speaking with him, only tell him the way you sense. it truly is precisely what my boyfriend did, and that i have been liking him too. you do not have a lot to lose, only tell him earlier you spill the beans that you do not opt for this to break your friendship. yet.. in case you adore him, you'll better suited tell him, because life is only so long and likes to tug human beings from one yet another. You not in any respect recognize at the same time as it's going to be the finest probability to inform him the reality, so all i will say is to take a deep breath and leap for it. If conceivable, i will get my boyfriend that would help you answer this, he will be again from a visit quickly. good success although =)
2016-11-26 01:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um wow. That went horribly wrong. To be honest... i dont think its possible. If he REALLY does love you like he claims... then telling him that you dont have feelings for him wont be good. The only thing you can do is be honest... because you DONT like him like that. Dont live your life afraid to do whats best for you... so let him have it. He's a man and he will get over it. While your friendship wont be the same...i'm sure you can remain friends.
If you ever want someone to NOT be in love with you.... find one thing that person is very passionate about... and flatly disagree with them. Its hard for people to love another person if that person disagrees with something that they believe whole heartedly. Maybe that might help. Make him fall out of love with you?
2006-10-03 18:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend is now my husband and WOW!!
We were friends for so long and I never knew how he felt for 22 years and we have now been together for 6 of the most wonderful years of my life.
2006-10-03 19:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by Theresa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's to you mrs robinson. You pulled a merideth grey. Just tell him you don't feel the same way, but will meet for sex if he wants to meet you at that level
2006-10-03 18:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you can do is be honest with him and hope that he values your friendship enough to remain friends....good luck
2006-10-03 18:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run
2006-10-03 18:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we need more lady friends like you dayummmmm!!!!!!
2006-10-03 18:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
rent WHEN HARRY MET SALLY. you are harry.
2006-10-03 18:26:52 · answer #9 · answered by sm2f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur in trouble.........
2006-10-03 18:28:48 · answer #10 · answered by Desperate Housewife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋