my breasts are so huge that i have to wear a custom bra but im only 15 and the men keep staring at them?

Question

what do i do

Answer 1

sorry you're just going to kind of have to get used to it. Cover up if it bothers you that much.

I'm not trying to be callous but really there's not much you can do to stop pigs from being pigs.

Answer 2

It must be hard to have such big breasts at 15, just as it's hard to have small ones or any other unusual feature. I feel for you. I was smaller-chested at that age but got large breasts later on (not implants). I have had crude comments made about them. In 11th or 12th grade, I was horrified when someone said, "Nice jugs!" I understand how you feel, but you should just ignore the comments. Guys are gonna notice your chest and some attention is inevitable. It's natural for guys to be attracted, but the good guys will be attracted to your personality, too. Not that the good guys won't notice or appreciate your chest, but it won't be the most important thing to them.

Certain styles of clothing can help balance your figure. You might try: http://tlc.discovery.com/fansites/whatnottowear/whatnottowear.html The hosts of the show "What Not to Wear" on channel TLC have tips on the website and their show is fun and informative. They also have a book called "Dress Your Best" that is probably good. I just found out about it researching for your question, so I haven't read it, but I love the show.

If you are having trouble finding bras, I can relate. I have had a very hard time finding bras that fit well, so I understand how annoying that can be. Most large bras are ugly and pointy. Others poke, shift, or stretch. The best I've found for the larger sizes (G and larger) are the Glamorize bras. They sell them on JCPenney.com and LaneBryantCatalog.com. Goddess bras also come in large sizes, but they tend to be pointy and they seem to be smaller than they should be. Could you tell me where you get the custom bras? Are they expensive? If I can afford one, I might try one to see if they are better than Glamorize.

When your body stops developing, if you have physical problems, you might try breast reduction surgery. However, depending on your situation, it may be more trouble than it's worth. It's not a simple procedure and I hear it's quite painful during the healing period. It also costs money and may or may not be covered by insurance. You might try exercise to strengthen the muscles that support your breasts and your upper body. That's what I plan on trying, because I don't want surgery if I can avoid it. I've already had surgery for something else when I was a kid and it was not fun. Except for racing down the hospital hall in a wheelchair! Wheeeeeee! : )

Whether you keep you breast size or reduce them, just be proud of who you are, and don't let your body define your self-worth.

Answer 3

There's a woman in town, I swear her breasts go past her belly button. I feel so sorry for her. You can't help but stare, then realize you're staring, then avert your eyes. Its a horrible vicious circle. I'm sure that everyone looks at them, not just guys. I think chesticles can be overwhelming to see. You must make many jaws drop. Take good care of them, or you will end up like that poor woman. I think they take up 1/2 her body, honestly, it's pretty bad. I don't think she afforded that custom bra, so yeah, its kind of gross, in the French sense and the English sense of the word. Good luck with that. I hear its hard on the shoulders.
Before bras were invented, women had these vests that they would sew, which they put over top of their shirts. Like a bolero or something

Answer 4

You have some options, like breast reduction surgery.... but if you're still developing, that may not be your best choice at this age.

I would say don't worry about it. Some folks will tell you "men are pigs" for staring, but in reality, men are men. That's what men do. I bet alot of women notice, too.

Don't get talked into the notion that you have a curse, and that men staring at you is a bad thing, or they're bad for staring, or you're some kind of victim. Believe me, there are plenty of people out there that will tell you that... and you will only become a victim if you let them convince you that you are.

Being comfortable, even proud, of your body is a sign of maturity. Don't be embarrassed. Just be yourself.

I know women who were absolutely persecuted at age 15 for NOT having breasts. I dated a women for 6 years (and we're still good friends) who was totally flat chested. It was tough for her in high school, but once she became an adult she realized that breast size didn't really matter.

My wife has extremely large breasts, and no, that is NOT why I married her! But she was stared at and teased alot in high school.... again, by the time she was in college, it didn't matter.

So for now, don't worry.

Answer 5

Well, I'm hoping that this is a serious question, despite the silly answers.

I was a D cup by 15 - there isn't much you can do. You can try to wear the reduction bras, but I was never very comfortable in them. You can learn to hide them with loose tops and colorful scarves - they are a GREAT way to distract the eye.

Mostly, unfortunately, you will need to get used to it to some extent - guys are going to look. Just try not to be too embarrassed by it - or take it to the other extreme and stare back and say "WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING AT?" That will often make them stop.

Best of luck! and try to learn to be comfortable with who you are - no matter what sort of attention it gets you :-)

Answer 6

no matter what size you are, men are just made like that! They stared, they are staring and they will continue to stare. It is not only your big size, but men stare and fantasize about each and every woman that passes.

My advice is to learn to accept the way that life is! Be comfortable in your own body and choose clothes that minimise the effect on your breast. Polonecks are definately a nono... halternecks as well... what is the best fit for big breasted women are V-necks. Believe me, i know because I have similar problems like you. Also, wrap over tops are a very good way to reduce attention from your breast. Even though you will have a cleavage exposed, the attention will be on your clothes.

Answer 7

Unusual things always attract attention. It's not the same as having some disfiguring scar on your face or being an amputee but it's not that different either. People who get to know you will become accustomed to it and stop staring, strangers will always be looking because that's the way the human mind works.

You can't change other people, you can only change yourself. Whether that means a breast reduction or learning to deal with the unwanted attention is up to you.

Answer 8

I'm an H cup

Do NOT wear a tight bra, that just makes them look like four boobs rather than two and t-shirts do not cover anything until they are big enough to make you look a good 5 sizes bigger and rounder then you are.

Get a good fitting bra, chose clothing wisely - and if they still stare than tell them you like men/boys with bigger appendanges.

Links are to two websites that can help you find the right sort of clothes to minimise the maximum cleavage a little.

Answer 9

At 15 you are probably not too used to going around with a grown woman's body -- you may be extra-sensitive to getting looked at like fruit salad. ("A little peach with a pretty pair...") when the gazers are only admiring the scenery and not really leching at
you. But, not being there, I can't tell -- a young lady I've known for years and whose elegant bod I have admired (platonically -- I'm old enough to be her grandfather) for years suddenly developed a pair of, I should say, 38DDs and rightly considered them out of proportion on her otherwise svelte frame. She can't afford breast reduction surgery (I don't know if you can or if you've even considered it), but well-fitting bras and fairly loose tops have done wonders for relieving her of embarassment.

Answer 10

no, dont do some thing drastic in simple terms yet ok? its well-known for u to be that length, and u probable wont strengthen a lot anymore. what are u frightened of precisely? there isnt some thing to be frightened of. and u can in elementary words get a breast help if ur 18 or over so u r gonna ought to attend many years, and in elementary words get it then in the journey that they r causing u severe soreness like again aches, neck soreness all of that stuff. its only a waste of money in the different case. and who knows, possibly in 3 years u will strengthen to love them.

Answer 11

Maybe you should get a breast reduction. My friend was the same way. She was having so much problems with her back be cause of them. But if you want to keep them then you should.