I just got a divorce and my exhusband has already found a new girlfriend (in a bar). I got in a chat room and that just wasn't for me. I don't have much free time without my son. What should I be doing?
2006-10-03 18:03:27 · 14 answers · asked by golden2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take a course at the local community college
2006-10-03 18:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chat rooms suck for males too. On line dating is well.. mostly not too much better but a possibility. Getting out of the house to a book store or park area with junior you might meet someone or a girl to be friends with leading to a new guy. However you meet a guy don't take too long to let them know you have a son. Save the time and trouble.
2006-10-04 01:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by gatzap 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can be a hard situation for a single mother. You just have to meet the right guy, that likes children. Where and how is a situation experience in itself. There are a few places you can make friends and it could lead to more, but, you have to consider distance!
This link; http://www.dating-now.com/ is more like Pen-Pals. But, you may find a good friend and over time it may become more. Scroll down and you find where to set up a Free Account. Pay close attention as to how you fill out your "Profile" and try to be truthful, as you will have people contact you. If, nothing else you can have a good friend or two that you can talk to.
2006-10-04 01:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by Snaglefritz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a singles Sunday School class -- you will make new friends both male and female also get support from others, Child care is provided free and you are in a safe environment . Good luck to you -- I've been there before
2006-10-04 01:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by dmtumble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Borders bookstore. Let your son go to the children's book section. You go also, but while you find some good reading that you are interested in.........if you see someone who you find interesting.....strike up some conversation.
OR go back to school. Meaning take a college course. Doesn't have to be anything fancy. Even if you take up....art or something. Get yourself out to social places, and see if you don't find something, or someone of interest.
Good luck.
2006-10-04 01:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by lilac b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your son into sport and become a soccer mum, that way you'll at least be out there and socialising with other parents.
or maybe you can do something together with your son, like music, art, drama, backgammon, etc. just get out and try as many new things as you can, and don't worry about your son so much, coz he too will be gaining from these experiences.
2006-10-04 01:07:51 · answer #6 · answered by pugsbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be taking care of your son. you will not evaporate without a man in your life.....your son needs you right now, especially because of the divorce, you are aware the he was affected by it also right?
2006-10-04 01:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for a single stay at home dad. or just keep your eyes open when you do have free time.
2006-10-04 01:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be doing your own thing if chat rooms are not for you then you need to take your time and do whatever is comfortable for you, don't rush into anything let it come to you
2006-10-04 01:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by gsxr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put out an advertisement in the local newspaper eg........
32 yr old single mom seeking male companion between 32 and 44yrs.
Professionals (or whatever) preferred.
E-mail me at...............
2006-10-04 12:32:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋