I want to try anal sex with my boyfriend, I am very curious and was wondering what it would be like. We tried to do it one night and I had to have him stop because it hurt to much. Anyone know what to do to ease the pain. Mature answers only, I am not interested in people who think it is gross.
2006-10-03 18:01:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
O.K. if it hurt the first time then you should try a different position. I'm honestly not sure if it always hurts the first time but it did for me so after that I tried different forms of penetration maybe using his fingers. Anything around that area i.e. touching, licking ect. something to relax your muscles and get you used to someone being in that area seems like it would help a little if not a lot. I'm not sure of any websites for advice on sex but there is a great show on Oh! oxygen it's a sex talk show where people call in and they usually have really good advice. Good luck it's always fun trying new things in bed you never know where it will lead.
2006-10-03 18:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by green 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-29 08:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by kernan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while I can tell you what me and my wife do....first off make sure that he is using a lub of sometype....other wise there will be some pain on both parties...the sec thing is take it slow....your anus needs to stratch, if you just go at it is will hurt becuase it doesnt stratch that fast...that is why in pronos there are peaple called fluffers....so just take it slow and have him push a little bit and then wait a min and then push a little more and wait and a little more and wait....and then after a bit you will have him all the way in and you should be ok from there to do it....just go slow and over time it wont hurt....
2006-10-03 18:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont recommend anal sex, but if you really want to make sure to use a condem, plenty of lubrication and make sure to take your time. The anus has two "parts" not sure what they are called but once your boyfriend hits a certain spot you have to be slow and gentle to allow you anus to open up. Be careful and make sure you want it, not just to please him. It is very painful but not to all women.
2006-10-03 18:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by Here2help 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll take the risk even though I'm not female. Use plenty of lube, both on you & him. You need to be completely relaxed in your surroundings as well. Try different positions so you are in control of the pace & depth.
2006-10-03 18:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does feel suprisingly good. However, the inside of your booty differs from the inside of your vagina, it doesn't stretch back and after time you can lose the ability to control your #2. If you want pleasure now go for it but remember that "Depends" are unattractive at any age.
2006-10-03 18:08:08 · answer #6 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, try using a good quality lube, and lots of it! Also I'd advise using a condom, it can get quiet messy. You can try getting him to use his fingers for awhile, to help you loosen up and get use to the feeling. Take it as slow as you want. Good luck!
2006-10-03 18:08:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lots of lubrication (KY jelly or other lubricants) and taking things slowly. If he goes too fast and/or too deep, he hits an ovary, which REALLY hurts. Done right, this can be very pleasurable.
2006-10-03 18:09:45 · answer #8 · answered by CrazedBoy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have done it, and there really is no way to ease the pain..it hurts..but if you are really in to it..use lubricating gel and have him use his finger to stretch it out first...sometimes its good..other times its not. hope that helps..it does help for you to be relaxed too...
2006-10-03 18:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by lifeisshort 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love it. when he first puts his penis in you it will hurt, let him put it in you slow and thrust slow at first. Believe me after a few seconds you will love it because your anus is loaded with sensitive nerve endings. Befor you do it have him lube up his fingers and finger you so it wont be so rough when he sticks his penis in you. after he fingers you youll be so excited youll want him to stick it in
2006-10-03 18:37:32 · answer #10 · answered by kristina n 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋