2006-10-03 17:55:47 · 22 answers · asked by byrd0578160 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You and your wife may be in a rut. When you dated you obviously had lots to talk about sooooo think back when you WERE dating and try to spice things up again. You can have a great time doing this and re-spark your marrige. Ask her out on a date, buy her a favorite CD with your song on it, etc. Have a date night each week......it doesn't have to be on the weekend. In fact, you have a better chance of getting a baby sitter in mid week. Go out for two or three hours and you will be surprised at how much you all will start talking! Good luck and have fun!!!
2006-10-03 18:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by Royallady1947 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well may be she doesn't talk much! but she's ur wife u know wat she likes so try to do those things... still if nothing improves take her out of town... even then if thing donn't come into place, sorry buddy free her... b'coz the question u asked sounds like a realation which is beging to break. never mind it's just the begining. if u want her to stay in ur life leave no stone unturned to mak her feel exited about the relation all the time
2006-10-04 01:04:10 · answer #2 · answered by ippi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad sign... she's already fed up and given up on you, buddy. Balls in your court if you want to keep her...
Whether there is nothing to say on a regular basis or she won't talk about what's bugging her, she'll find someone else to complain about it. You better hope that the person she finds is a woman.
In the mean time, don't force her to talk. You say what you need to say, don't grovel, don't beg. Let her join you in conversation.
You can't talk about the serious stuff if you won't talk about the stupid stuff. Example, if she tells you about her stupid co-worker that is irritating her, remember the names and ask a valid question. Or her favorite show got canceled, it's not stupid to her, so don't act like it's dumb. Show interest about the things she cares about, you don't have to like it. But she needs to feel like what she says has worth and meaning.
It's a lot of work ahead of you, I hope you take this seriously.
Much luck to you!
2006-10-04 12:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aparently she has already made up her mind about the situation. So in her mind there is nothing to talk about. The answer to your question is ...there is nothing you can do. As the old saying goes...you can lead a horse to water, but you cant make them drink. She will talk to you when she is ready to talk. Good Luck!
2006-10-04 01:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by Papabear WV 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about her feelings. Ask her what she is upset about and even if you feel like slapping her, grimace and stay calm. Offer to do something together which is fun, see a movie, go mini golfing, take her shopping. You can talk about that. But don't let her just get what she wants without considering what you want. It has to go both ways. Once you have rekindled your marriage the sex will be hot hot hot HOOOTTTT!
2006-10-04 01:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long romantic weekend full of sex. That doesn't require much talking. Once you two are on your way home the talking should pick up.
2006-10-04 00:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by wishuponstarson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a woman myself..She might be in pain from something...Don't push it will cause her to cheat... Just her a little room..i'm not saying to much..Remember if the love you and her had before this happen... Take it slow be careful...
2006-10-04 01:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you getting a divorce? Just prepare to move.... she is close minded to the chance of talk.
2006-10-04 00:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her an office job or let her go to the hairdresser I bet she'll come back with some to talk about.
2006-10-04 00:58:45 · answer #9 · answered by Desperate Housewife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk tomorrow
2006-10-04 01:35:45 · answer #10 · answered by Diamond in the Rough 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋