John is a male Scorpio who is very secretive about his feelings. I am a Taurus. I find that Scorpio males are attracted to me. I have feelings for him and I believe he has feelings for me too. All signs point to this. One day, John decides to tell me that he has a girlfriend. This was before he invited me into a private place inside our office building to help him sort out a pile of books. 2 days in a row.Another thing I should tell you is that he stares. A lot. Its nerve wrecking. He has a thing for dark places.John and I used to get along SO well until I couldn’t take it anymore. I’ve known John for a little over 1.5 month yet somehow I feel like I’ve known him for ages and centuries regardless of short period. This was a huge mistake. I thought I knew him inside out. I am not so sure he could say the same for me. I have a feeling that perhaps John told one of his good friends about my feelings for him. Now I am feeling completely rotten inside. He says he writes about me in his litlittle black book. (uhh.. what?? What does it mean??) I am confused about his motives. I am back to my normal self now BUT John is stiiiiil ignoring. I asked him about this but to no avail. He refuses to talk to me anymore. What an unpleasant situation to be in. I can’t take not being able to communicate with my only pal. I give up! I wanted to know if any of you might have any suggestions, advices, or insights into this situation for me?
2006-10-03 17:50:44 · 6 answers · asked by Tiger Lilly 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
If he has a girlfriend, first of all, he is off limits romantically. But if all you want is a pal...then that's all right.
What all did you two do whilst sorting the books? If it is what I think it is, something naughty, you should be deterred even more from John because if he cheats on his current girlfriend, you know cheating on you will not be considered off-limits to him.
He stares. I assume it's cause he's thinking very...secret thoughts about you. But if you want him to stop, just tell him it's annoying you or freaking you out or whatever. Tell him to close his eyes. He can do it. You see, you have to be firm, making sure he knows you do not want him to do this, but not offensive, because Scorpio people will get very hurt if you are just like, "Okay, stop it! You look at me like some sort of creep would and I hate it!" I suggest something more along the lines of, "Your eyes, focused on me like they are, make me rather uncomfortable. You're welcome to think of me in your head, but save the gazes for when we're alone and I can look back into your eyes." He'll probably be delighted to hear that. ;)
Maybe he means he has a diary...? Or a journal in which he tells of you, but other than that possible meaning, I don't know.
Finally, about the ignoring. If you want to speak with him, make the big baby open up. You have to prod him. Don't mess around and say, "Please talk to me," or, "John, I don't know what's wrong!" because that's taken, essentially in times of miscommunication, as false effort to re-establish the relationship. Again, be direct. Only then will it seem to him that you really want to talk to him. Corner him someplace where you two are alone as you can be and say to him your worries and what you want: your pal back.
:) I hope this helps your dilemma.
2006-10-03 18:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by Landers M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a scorpio male, and I tell you the truth, scorpios are very loving, but we have a hard time "breaking the ice". When our feelings get hurt (no matter how small a thing it is) we tend to close our selfs in from other people. Maybe something happened that hurt John's feelings and you don't know about it. Let some time pass by and ask. BEST OF LUCK TO YOU!!!!!
2006-10-04 01:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Taurus my self and something identical happened to me 7 years ago, like you i also acted on my impulses. but i let things get in the way and i wasn't brave enough to resolve them. him and i have our own families now so here we both are settling for what it could only be an on-line friendship knowing that the feeling and that energy that pulled us towards each other it's strangely still there. . please take my experience and don't let this happen to you have some courage and confront the situation or you'll never find out what would've been.
2006-10-04 04:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Ms. Taurus,
I am so crazy for scorpion love as well, only I am a Pisces. My Scorpion hottie I believe has taken away my heart this evening. This time I believe he has stung me with his poisonous stinger for the last time. Don't get me wrong thou, like a fool, I hope not!,...I love him with all of my heart, soul, and absolute being!!! All signs have pointed to {and even words and actions), to the two of us being 200% compatible...without a doubt soulmates always. Would you like to talk??? You can reach me @ fmpisces@hotmail.com.
2006-10-04 03:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by max 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats so dramatic!!!!!!!!!!!! wow well what does this have to do with anything so what if he's a scorpio ............. if u were asking for compatibility then ok .........but wtf! take a breather i know a taurus goin through the same shyt with a scorpio.
2006-10-04 17:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by umm...yea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, they DO say that Scorpios cheat a lot???????????
2006-10-04 12:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋