how do you manage your life while dating a married man for 3mnths and a boyfriend of 2yrs. I love 1 and really really like the other as much as he likes me , but the thing our other halves found out about the two of us but neither knows us so what do i do leave although he is a good friend to me or try and work it out and continue to c him secretly
2006-10-03 17:22:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like you're happy with the arrangement why not keep seeing him.......lol...I think I envy you............
2006-10-03 17:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
First of all I would like to know what posseses a woman to want to marry a married man. I want to know what you would feel if your Boyfriend would cheat on you with a married woman. Which I somehow hope he does. But none the less, I think that You need to back of the Married guy, regardless of why he's with you, what you are doing is wrong in all cases. Think about what you are doing and make the right choice!! WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND, AND KARMA KICKS YOU IN THE ASSS.!!
2006-10-04 01:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether or not you want a faithful and devoted mate. First of all, think about this...if you are with a married man and he is still with his wife, what kind of future do you think you have? If you were married to him and she was the other woman, how would you feel? If he's cheating on her with you, don't you think if you end up together he'll do the same thing to you? You are being quite unfair to your bf also. If you don't want him, let him go so he can be happy and fulfilled. Don't waste your time and energy when you'll only get hurt in the end.
2006-10-04 00:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by ladywolf 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How will the wife feel when she finds out about you and her husband? She will find out sooner or later, you know. How would you feel if some bimbo was seeing your husband? And what about your boyfriend of 2 years, will he drop you when he finds out? Does seeing another woman's husband make you feel good about yourself? If the best you can do is another woman's husband, then you have no life to manage.
2006-10-04 00:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by Rita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes down to it, is it worth the drama? Is it worth the turmoil? Is it worth that nagging voice in your head that tells you this is wrong? Is it worth worrying about what will happen in the future. Despite whatever love you may feel, or fun you may be having, is it worth the feelings you have when the fun stops and there is only silence? I'd be willing to bet that it isn't.
2006-10-04 01:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to begin with you really shouldnt be dating a married man, it is incredibly unfair to his wife. But if the two of you really care for each other that much , then leave your boyfriend and tell him he must leave his wife to be with you if he wants to keep you. Sneaking around is just wrong.
2006-10-04 00:27:43 · answer #6 · answered by Ash 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No good could come from all this. If you love one then why do you need or want the other in your life?
2006-10-04 00:32:54 · answer #7 · answered by Magica! Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the married guy as he's already taken and to him, you're just second best, his wife is number 1.
2006-10-04 00:32:29 · answer #8 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the married man....you re being a home wrecker and also, you wouldnt want it done to you right?? put the other percent that you werent giving your boyfiend into him. or you can leave your dude and be alone and wait for-never for that guy to leave his wife.
2006-10-04 00:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the boyfriend and leave the married guy alone.
2006-10-04 00:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really love or care about either of them, or you wouldn't be using them this way.
2006-10-04 00:25:30 · answer #11 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋