2006-10-03 17:12:46 · 17 answers · asked by bashooli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes it is natural. Women are always worried about their men watching porn when in actuality, it is so much more "normal" than most think. Men are visual creatures and get turned on by actually seeing nudes and sex scenes. Women on the other hand are more emotional and lean toward the sensual side of sex. Just because he watches porn doesn't mean he does not love his wife. I just wish that women would accept this and not give their husbands so much grief over it. It is really harmless. Might do wives some good to watch with them and point things out like, "would that excite you if I did that, sweetie?".........
2006-10-03 17:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I just caught my wife in the middle of a non-sexual intimate relationship. I did not want to touch her but I am still very physically attracted to her. I've been extremely mad at her for the past several weeks.
I turned to those movies as a way to take my mind of things. They are pretty boring after a while. However, they have put some ideas in my head to try on her (if this mess does not end our marriage).
Overall, pretty boring stuff. The real thing is what I desire.
2006-10-04 01:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very natural for married men to watch porn, my husband who I have been married to for 18 years still watches but that doesn't mean he doesn't love me. In fact he love me a lot and he knows that I have no problem with him watching porn, sometimes I join in with him and we have fun too! Some men need to have a little fun even when they are married to the woman they love. So if your husband likes porn and he is still with you, take my advice enjoy and have fun with him because really it does work I know I have been married for 18 years and we are still looking and loving each other to death.
Peace be with you!
2006-10-04 00:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think that marriage can be stressfull for both husband and wife. Men ( or women) feel this is a good way to release the pressure and tension. You must remember the mate may not be home or in the mood when the other is
2006-10-04 00:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea it is natural, and it doesnt at all mean that he doesnt love you, some guys, well most guys need a variety, and it is much better for him to get that from porn than to get it in another woman, try watching it with him, it is not only a great educational tool for spicing things up but also a major turn on.
2006-10-04 00:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by Ash 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes it is natural. just about everyman does it. they still love you but they have fantasies that they fulfill by watching others. If you have a problem with your or whosever husbnd watching porn, then maybe you should sit down and have a talk with him, because if you or whoever holds it inside then it could just take a turn for the worst. it could make you feel bad about yourself, and you shouldn't it is just a male tendencie. i hope i answered your question sorry if i rambled a little
2006-10-04 00:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it's natural.... alot of people will try to tell you that it is sick, or you are not doing something right, or that they will cheat on you if they watch..... bull...... men are visual beings... they like to look... try watching with him... you might get some fun out of it!! He's your husband ... don't be a prude about it..... men don't expect their wives to actually look like that or act like that.... so don't take his watching porn personally.
2006-10-04 00:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by havekidsgocrazy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg yes i love watching Porn, be it my age, 44 or just i need somthing to get it up. i love a good adult movie, but i'll say this, it hasent changed how i feel about the babe i've been with for 15 years at all!
if your not a Prude in bed , then watch it with him, you'll be so w-- by the time its over you will tear him up!
2006-10-04 00:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by rpoker 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is not good. It gives false ideas about how things really are (the realistic view of things) and usually causes you to act on what you see eventually. Just ask any man who has cheated if they ever watch porn, most would say yes.
2006-10-04 00:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by queenBea 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes its natural. How can watching porn make you think he doesn't love you? Watch it with him. Its hot. How often do you have sex compared to how often he wants it. Give the man a break.
2006-10-04 00:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋