im scared of loosing my b.f hes always telling me that if he didnt wanna be wit me, he woudlnt... but i get so jealous and scared that hes guna leave me... im preg. and it makes me more worried about it... how can i get over thinking that hes guna leave me... its starting to ruin our relationship by me worrying so much..
2006-10-03 17:10:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of for that last comment your not stupid. I've got that same problem right now of worrying all the time. And the first answer you got was the closed to be right. We need to learn to trust our men. And believe that they love us and that when they say that their not going to leave us that they really won't no matter what. I wish I could be more helpful. But please keep me in mind and you can even E-mail me if you want to talk. Maybe we can help each other out in the long run.
2006-10-03 17:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't ease up on the fear & jealousy you will push him away.
This sort of feeling can be caused by a things...low self esteem and he might be showing signs of not being trusted. Or you have some hurt from your past that makes you not trust men.
Worry can come from negative internal self talk. You wake up each day and in your mind the same thought attacken you. It is time for you to change your internal talking. When you have negavite thoughts just stop and rethink. If you have to write things down - do it. Say things to yourself like..'I am so forrtunate to have a baby on the way and a good man at my side"
You are probably young. As you age you will realize that you need to depend on you.....you need to be strong in yourself to surrve. a man wil not save you. He can make your life good, but when it comes down to it in life. you are you. Don't let a man define you. Let him enrich your life. Until you feel that strength within you....you will worry way too much.
2006-10-03 17:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 19:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stupid girl... get married...
It seems to me... after you conceive your child... he will leave your for sure...
Because by that time your hormon imbalance is in all time high...
You'll be super moody... and probably will want to chew him every single time...
Plus you'll have the baby that will create the stress on your relationship...
Moreover... you'll be very ugly after giving birth... pimples, fat, and smelly...
Yep... he's going to leave you for sure..., but it's your fault to get pregnant outside marriage anyway...
Just too stupid...
I hope your bf is man enough to stay with you...
2006-10-03 17:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jimmy the Cricket 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you have to trust him
2006-10-03 17:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by dee d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋