The other day my fiance and I were about to go for a bike ride. I couldn't find my water bottle and so he said I could use his if needed. The water that was in his plastic bottle had been in there for a couple of weeks and I asked if I could change the water. He said "No, water improves in a bottle with age and becomes distilled and purified and tastes better". I told him I wasn't happy with drinking weeks old tap water and proceeded to tip out the water and replace it, to which he lectured me and told me I was "disrespectful, rebellious and sneeky etc" then got on his bike and rode off without me. I was very upset because I couldn't believe he would make such a big deal about something as simple as changing water in a bottle. He said I never listen to him. . . I feel like I am being treated like a child. Why is he so neurotic about stuff like this?
2006-10-03 17:10:04 · 3 answers · asked by gwibsy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ah, he's bit immature and not very hygenic. You don't know what kind of germs could have grown from the back wash since then. You might check his other hygenic habits.
2006-10-03 17:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by gbdelta1954 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be a control factor on his part...and he becomes angry when you did not submit.... maybe you need to reasses your
relationship with him.....You "never listening to him" should be
a warning sign... and riding off would suggest that he is the child
with the temper tantrum...... good luck...keep eyes/ears open
2006-10-03 17:16:17 · answer #2 · answered by RiverRat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT IS ALL MY FAULT
2006-10-03 17:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋