How to tell my wife that I have lost interest in her?

Answer 1

I feel your pain...I was honest with my husband...I just told him I wasnt attracted to him anymore. I think the best thing to do is be honest but make sure you take time to think things through before you tell her...but you need to talk to her about this. He was hurt...but I had to be honest..we are trying to work through it...the grass is not always greener on the other side my friend

Answer 2

Sit her down and say you have something important to tell her. Explain your true feelings and let her know you don't have interest in her nowadays. If you care about the marriage, setup a marriage counseling session before you talk with her. When you are done telling her your thoughts, ask her if she would join you in your visit at a future date. Tell her you don't know whtat else to do.

This is very common in marriages. Somehow the batteries need to be reignited. Perhaps a separation from each other may help?

Good Luck. I feel for you. I am going on my 2nd divorce right now. The first ended from an affair she had; The 2nd is ending because I lost interest that I'm not sure I ever had.

Answer 3

Why don't you work on getting it back instead of just throwing it all away? Maintaining the same partner is way more difficult than keeping a bunch of different ones. In a long term relationship, which is what you signed up for you go up and down and may even fall in out and out of love with the person. The key is getting it back, doing whatever you both did in the beginning to be attracted to each other.

Please note, that everything in life gets old. If you get another woman, she'll get get old and boring and you'll lose interest in her. You'll get old too and someone will be asking how to tell you they are losing interest in you. You will hope they'd be willing to put in the work, you should try it.

Answer 4

You must have a very concrete reason why you have lost interest in her. I dont know how long you have been married. If the reason because of lost interest in sex, then you need to have an open talking with her and come up with a solution. But if the reason because of a third party, then you better be prepared to face all the consequences.

Answer 5

What do you mean by lost interest? If it's a sex thing, it's something you can work on together by asking her if she's open to trying new things, if you're not attracted to her at all, then you need to consider why you are still with her. Either way, just be honest with her and tell her exactly how you feel.

Answer 6

I guess the best way to tell your wife that you have lost interest in her is to show up at dinner with your new girlfriend. That is always a good sign and makes and interesting dinner topic. Good Luck with that.

Answer 7

It depends on your intention. Do you want a out of the marriage? Or do you want to continue working on things? If you want a divorce, tell her honestly but do show some sensitivity while you are at it. If you want to continue working on things, may be marriage conselling /retreat to identify issues on why you lost interest can be work out. Whatever you do don't just sweep the issue under the carpet and be honest.

Answer 8

lf u lost interest with your wife u can go n look 4 another new wife.Than u can introduce your wife to me.Let love her ok.l want to try n see how's your wife bed skill good or not?Can l have her Mr lost interest?

Answer 9

if its a relationship and for worst, just tell her and be honest about it. it'll surface sooner or later or she'll take the hint.

do it now and dont waste each another's precious time? be gentle and talk over it in a mature way? she still deserve such respect even at this time?be fair to the children too if any.

not easy? time will tell.

good luck.

Answer 10

Hi Honey, I have lost interest in you........! So you are contemplating Divorce?? Is there no spark left?? What is the
foundation of your lost desire.. is there someone else that sparks
your interest??