Is it possible for a couple to get back together after 5 or more years of brutal divorce. Can we really put it all behind us and make it work?
2006-10-03 17:03:00 · 14 answers · asked by sinfulways44 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you are the only one that knows what you went through before, I cant really answer this for you. Follow your heart has the other person changed at all and if for how long. I believe some people can change some things but it takes a real strong person to do this, you can try it and if any of the signs come back get out. I wouldnt get married again right away anyways.
2006-10-03 17:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not, in my opinion you should never go back to an ex...after all there is a reason they are an ex. Especially if the divorce was brutal because there will probably be a lot of anger issues there. Move on.
2006-10-03 17:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by Ash 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ha! I would strongly say Run.....but i have actually seen it work with my own parents even after he remarried,then mended things 5 years later,and are more in love then ever...but it was tough for them,when u take some1 back,u must bury the things that have happened,so my advice to you is to make sure your willing to forget and forgive,if not it will never work,depends on the strength of the love,and the person,good luck in whatever happens! hope this helps ya!
2006-10-03 17:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by deliciousdawnella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I don't think it's possible. People don't change. Things might start nice in the beginning, but somehow everything just goes back to the same where you left off... a brutal breakup.
2006-10-03 17:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by Your Wife 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Less than 14% of people accomplish what you are asking so the answer is yes it is possible.
2006-10-03 17:13:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is Possible; but you would need God's help to forgive and put any hard feelings aside!!
Find a good church, that will help alot!!!
Sounds like you really love her!! Go for it!!
2006-10-03 17:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lucky 7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With counseling, yes. Without will be an uphill battle.
2006-10-03 17:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by naughty_mattress_monkey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, withn the proper tools. like counciling. Anger managment. all that good stuff
2006-10-03 17:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by brad w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No things will slowly end up like they were because it is the same two people.
2006-10-03 17:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by wishuponstarson 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it would be a very stupid move, move on and find somebody else there are so many lonely people out there.
2006-10-03 17:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by Desperate Housewife 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋