i know that i mad mistakes and the guy that i was dating did not do what he was convicted of but she will not let me have him back even though i have a job and my own apartment far away from him.
2006-10-03 17:02:50 · 6 answers · asked by brittenygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If it was me I would talk to a lawyer and fight to get my child back if I knew I could support it and take good care of it. If you can't support your child now, try to work out something to where you can get it back in a few years or so, then you can have time to get yourself where you need to be to raise a child.
2006-10-03 17:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is because dear she thinks that you are irresponsible and that is the way all parents feel when they see that bad choices are hurting the children that are involved. At this point she feels that you haven't proved to her that you are responsible enough to take care of your child because of the choices that you made.
And also depending on where you are working at she would really have something to hold on to the child for because then she would see that you don't even have enough money to take care of the child yet alone yourself.
My advice to you is move on and keep writing to your child and let him know that you love him and misses him and that one day you will be together. And that is really all you can do until the time comes for the child to speak up for himself whether or not he wants to be with you or with her. Only time will really tell on that issue. I am sorry that you are not allowed to see your child (son) but you have to look at the responsibilities in this and see why she has done this too. You also have to take some responsibility for you own actions as well so until you do that she will never let her guard down not for a second when it come down to the boy.
I'm sorry to put it so bluntly but that is really the truth!
2006-10-03 17:14:48 · answer #2 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to the police. If you are the legal mom and can prove you can support your child without assistance sound like kidnapping to me
2006-10-03 17:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for some reasons I have a feeling it s better that your child stays with your mom..at least for now
2006-10-03 17:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does your mom have custody of your child? How old are you?
2006-10-03 17:05:38 · answer #5 · answered by happydawg 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its your kid legaly she cant hold your child from you with out takeing some legal action aginst you go get your kid back.
2006-10-03 17:21:37 · answer #6 · answered by deshawn m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋