When you've only been married one year?
2006-10-03 16:57:30 · 28 answers · asked by luvnsm1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That question can only be answered by him,, since we all have different opinions.
2006-10-03 17:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by avery 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And what is wrong with masturbation ? It is a normal and healthy behaviour unless its done on the the bus while riding to work.
I'm curious how long do you have to be married before it is ok to masturbate?
All creatures self stimulate it's normal, don't look at it as a sign that you are inadequate as a partner. See it for what it is, a normal behaviour unless done while in transit. It makes a mess of your windshield.
2006-10-04 00:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal honesty is best 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's entirely up to them. If you don't like it, you can always talk to them about it or get a divorce or whatever, but they still have the right to masturbate.
Keep in mind that men want sex more than women do. We've evolved that way because it takes very little energy for a man to get a chance at some offspring while it takes a lot of energy for a woman. So if you find yourself often turning him down when he wants sex, don't be surprised at this.
2006-10-04 00:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no it ain't right. He should not be sooo selfish. Men need to think with their head and not with what is between their pants. Women get sexually frustrated too and if they aren't having sex with the wife then they have a frigging problem that needs to be discussed between the two of you and don't let him play it off. tell him if he is gonna do that then u have the right to go bye a d**DO bigger than his and show him how u use it. That outta fix him.
2006-10-04 02:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone's missing the point; if he's got a wife of only one year, and he's pleasuring himself instead of being with his wife, then something's terribly wrong.
This is something that has to be nipped in the bud immediately or you're setting up your marriage for some rough roads ahead. Confront him, tell him it's not right to withold himself from you like that, and he owes it to you to be open about why this is happening.
2006-10-04 00:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not to sound like a pig, but tempt him and that will stop...for the moment at least.
When you get married the time for "the games" as men know them is over.
It was awhile before I got to "that point" with my fiancee, but now I'm the one who just wants to cuddle.
He's your husband...it's ok to be a freak ( or whatever name you wanna use)
2006-10-04 00:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by Benjamin W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after one year? why aren't you helping him with his sexual urges? or does he want to do it 3 times a day or something? a wife should take care of his urges otherwise the sexually frustrated male will masturbate. are you jealous by him doing that?
2006-10-04 00:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by smash_mouth_man2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmmmmmm lady u will never understand what its like being a man with real needs , how come u dont ask us y u take so long in the shower with the "new" 8 speed shower head ? ok then thanks for the 2 points and the ten u r going 2 give me for pointing that out for u,lol(still got 2 points but u know i deserve the 10)
2006-10-04 00:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by q45dip 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men chronically masturbate. We are chronic masturbators. You may be a little prudish perhaps for your husband, so ask him what he really wants or expects in the bedroom and humor him. Relax and have some fun! Sex is great!
2006-10-04 00:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by babalu2 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well coming from a guy this would make sense to say. This thing going on with your man isn't good for the marriage in the first place. So lets say you were doing all this crap and he knew it. Would he like it at all. ????
2006-10-04 00:07:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anointed71 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all comes down to convenience and communication.His hand is there when you may not be wanting it,its a different stimulation.Sexually things will improve when communication does.Good Luck
2006-10-04 00:01:31 · answer #11 · answered by maykithapin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋