It's always confusing to me as to why women want to get married so badly....isn't a lot worse for a female to get married to a guy anyway?
Because marriage means you'll most likely wind up having children...and since they come from our bodies they are pretty much our responsibility and there always a chance that the husband will cut and run...or divorce...or something will happen causing him to leave...etc. OR your husband stays with you...then you wind up having to clean up after your husband...and children. And these days you have to work...so you'll never get a break from anything. And if your hormones goes crazy and you can't get into the mood to have sex guys will "stray" and have sex with another women. Then you feel trapped into marraige because you had children with the guy.
2006-10-03 16:47:49 · 17 answers · asked by charming_imogen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We always picture our dream weddings in our heads since we were little girls! we want everything to be perfect!
2006-10-03 16:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by crystal e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why you don't get married until you are sure of your relationship. A marriage should be a shared relationship. When the relationship has a problem you should be able to discuss the problem and come to a mutual agreement on how to fix the problem. Marriage is a two way street and you have to go across a lot of side streets for the relationship to keep going.
2006-10-03 16:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since the nature has been choosing us for the feucher of the human being, and he doesn't do anything imperfect he has also put in our gains the need for the family and dependence to find a home and have a mail to help us with keeping and having children, and the other reason is that the women are also physically weaker, and they need protection for themselves and the feather's kids, and women need most of the time only one man , while the men need always different ones and don't care that much for having a home and growing children.
2006-10-03 16:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by santa s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is the best system to maintain social culture, ethics in the society. Marriage should be seen with a positive mind. It is nature and necessity for a man and woman to be together for their needs. Women need protection which can be given by a man only.
2006-10-03 16:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by sanam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a really big "if" unless you are talking about the present. Guys stray partly because of what you mentioned. alot of times they dont want to be married, and never did, they just felt obligated, or guilty or pressured. As for what will happen. I think if you have the outlook you do now, then it might. You shouldnt marry anyone if you think they are going to treat you right.
2006-10-03 16:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by Aaron S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It;s feminine head trip. They want to know a man wants them enough to marry. However they later want kids to prove they can do what their own mothers did. Often, it's their egos telling them this. Then where does the man fit in? Often, not much.
Make sure absolutely sure she's really your Friends over time. Then you'll know she'll care about you as a person and not damp you after the ceremony and birth.
2006-10-03 16:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all of us do, I have been married to my husband for almost 5 years and he was the one who pressured me into it. I was happy just being with him but he wanted to get married, so after 2 years of him asking I finally gave in.
2006-10-03 16:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by Ash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cos they in all likelihood love one yet another. it could ensue... basically marry biracial adult men? let's imagine you have a decision between a biracial and a black/white guy; the biracial guy became into is jerk, and that a black/white guy is nicely mannered, nicely groomed and enjoyed you completely like no different guy would desire to? ok that answer would desire to be "you do unlike them back" (cos he ain't biracial), so consequently you will stay unmarried we could exchange it slightly... assume you have been blind? that question is to absolutely everyone else who'd basically evaluate one race you assert that they finally end up having 3/4 black youngster. So? You mothers and fathers began the technique...
2016-10-15 12:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women put marriage as the ultimate goal.....guys don't. It's not that we don't care, we just don't see the symbolism the same way and view it as achieving a higher level of intimacy and trust.
Sorry, we're just not that deep. Most of us learn though....the hard way.
2006-10-03 16:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by bardstale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that an age old question since that make us into maids mothers and other things,if your gonna give the honey might as well get the benefits that go with it
2006-10-03 16:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋