It just seems like no one really takes love & marriage serious. Most of my married friends, look at other men/women. They act like something is wrong with me, because I don't. I have many male friends, but they are friends only. I am a real honest, truely faithful person, I don't think there's anything wrong with me.
2006-10-03 16:45:07 · 26 answers · asked by elizabethberkley284 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
nothing wrong with you at all!
2006-10-03 16:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by crystal e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and marriage is not some fairy tale that ends happily ever after, it takes alot of work and compromise in order to keep a successful marriage, However it is not wrong to look at someone else as being attractive it is when you act upon it that is becomes wrong. We are all human we all have humanistic needs, expecting someone to never find anyone else attractive is impossible because we are built that way. it is great that you do not have that urge to look at other people you have a rare quality that alot of people do not have but dont judge other people for being human only if they act upon those feelings for the opposite sex. just because you're married doesn't mean that you are dead or live in a cave you should still be able to live life to the fullest.
2006-10-03 16:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by dzjoni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am truthful, honest and would never cheat. I take marriage very seriously. I was married 2 times to men who cheated. I have very firm beliefs if your cheated on, get out of it, and I did
I think the fact that I have been married and divorced twice makes me look bad. Now, I dont even try to explain because it all sounds so bad. I just cannot be a lover to someone who cheats. I will never marry again because I am getting older and am not naive as I was when I was younger.
2006-10-03 17:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right that marriage isn't what it used to be. It really does seem like it is harder to find men and women that are truly serious about commitment. Yes, there are honest and truly faithful people in this world but they are getting harder to find. Maybe it's just me but with the divorce rate at what it is I think it would be hard to prove otherwise.
Because you are honest and faithful you are also a special and rare find. Please don't change that.
2006-10-03 16:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by ohboyohboy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. I have been married and divorced twice. My loving husbands both cheated on me. I never did that to them. I still believe in being faithful to a person. I tried to make both of my marriages work. But they had drug and alcohol problems. I wouldnt do those things, so they went out to find someone who would. There is still people who believe in taking a marriage seriously. Even those who have been burnt.
2006-10-03 16:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by Kathy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right! I have many male friends and that is just that. I am an honest and faithful person as well and so is my husband. I have no doubt about this and we trust each other and are the best of friends.
2006-10-03 16:49:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 01:43:21 · answer #7 · answered by chafton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is no problem with u its just that were in the year 2006 and people think is funny 2 get married with some one and have more lovers but that is what this world has come to there is no truthful people in this world they are all fake they just tell u what u want 2 hear so they could hit it.
2006-10-03 16:52:29 · answer #8 · answered by lonely and sad 7/20/05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, there are some real honest, truely faithful people in this world. It does seem they are hard to find though
2006-10-03 16:47:13 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking at a pretty picture doesn't mean you want to buy the art. Googling over an attractive person doesn't mean you are not faithful. I appreciate a man who takes care of himself, and my man appreciates a woman who takes care of herself. But we are not about to have an affair. I'm flattered when some guy finds me attractive. It means I "still got it". My man feels the same, and we talk about it openly. It's called trust in yourself and trust in your mate.
2006-10-03 16:51:25 · answer #10 · answered by jennilaine777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are lots of us around. And no, there's nothing wrong with us. People who wish they had the integrity to be that way will sometimes put you down because they can't deal with it. Actually, I believe the cheaters are still in the minority. They just make the most noise.
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2006-10-03 16:51:15 · answer #11 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋