I know this question is random and little immature, butI wanted to ask it nevertheless. My fiancee and I are filling out a premarital quiz, and one of the many questions it asks is 'what is your reason for wanting to get married'? Now, we know our answers for why we want to get married....but I was curious...what were yours?
2006-10-03 16:26:44 · 12 answers · asked by Cherished_Bride 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because his soul is the opposite of my soul. We belong together. We are in love, and have been in love since the day we met. The struggles we've been through have made our love stronger. Our family needs to be legally recognized as a family. His kids need to see commitment. We need to file government forms as married. I want his last name so I can be more a part of him, and I know he feels the same way. We want the house to function as a single unit. The tradition isn't as important as the symbolism of it. I am just a bit of a star that found it's way to be life. He needs more stardust, and so do I. I want to have children and help to create the next generation, and generations to come from my home and our wisdom. Good question, by the way.
2006-10-03 16:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by jennilaine777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations on your upcoming marriage!! I want to (and will in 1 month from now) marry because I had found the man who has come into my life and had completed me. He is everything I have ever hoped for in a man, he's a wonderful father to my children (he's raising my little girl who's 16 mos as his own) and is a positive male role model for my 2 sons. He is the only person i could even imagine giving that kind of commitment to. I'm really lucky to have him.
2006-10-03 23:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by the_mystical_runt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am marrying my man because I love him and I too did not want to miss waking up to him every morning. I have three children two from a previous relationship and he has been there for them like they were his own kids. I wake up thinking about him. Even when I am mad at him I can't stop thinking about him because he has me hooked like a fish on a reel baby. I fell like we just connect we have that electricity.
2006-10-03 23:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by CaramelSundae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married my husband because I loved him and more importantly he loved me. He loved me in a way I had never been loved in my life and could make me feel more with just one look or one touch than anyone else could in a lifetime.
Funny I just looked over at him as I was typing this and he wrinkled up his nose and grinned at me......after 14 years I still so love this man! It has not always been perfect or easy, but it is worth it.
2006-10-03 23:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by Airlantiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I loved him very much. I didn't want anyone else. I wanted to wake up next to him every morning, and fall asleep next to him every night for the rest of my life.
I wanted to grow old with him, and experience and share every aspect of my life, and also be there to share in his as well.
I knew happily ever after doesn't really exist.......but I was willing to be there through happily, and not so happily too. He was the one, and all I wanted, needed, and hoped for.
Sadly, we won't ever see our fourth anniversary. I stuck around for a long time. A long time in the sense that there were definetely deal breakers going on shortly after we got married.
I have filed for divorce now........and it's crazy because I know he isn't good for me....isn't the person I thought he was, or fell in love with.......but I still grieve and mourn for my marriage. I am fighting with myself over allowing him to contact me and try to make things up. I can't and won't let myself do it..........but I want to with every part of my being.
Congratulations you to you and your husband to be. I hope that it is every beautiful, true, good, and lasting. Be strong. Be patient. Be considerate.....and everything will be fine.
2006-10-03 23:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by lilac b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seth was the only person who was there for me when I went through Chemotherapy. He was more suportive then my family, he held my hair while I puked, he drove me to appointments, he held me and rocked me when my hair began to fall out, and we had only been dating for 7 months. With a boyfriend who could treat me like that, I knew I wanted to marry him! We have now been married for 2 1/2 years!
2006-10-03 23:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by ladydragondale 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply to have wife to give me my biological needs, to nurse and attends to my needs in times of sickness, to have companion for the rest of my life, to have a best friend that comfort me in times of troubles, and the most important is to love someone in place of replacement to my mother and to care-of my future kids because I want to have kids on my owns blood to comfort, to teach and educate..Kids will give me total happiness in life..
2006-10-04 00:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply because of love and I wanted to have a family.
2006-10-03 23:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i married my husband because i love him and i couldn't stand to be away from him anymore. His job had him in Alaska while i was in Nebraska. I couldn't do it anymore. Now i've never been happier.
2006-10-03 23:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by frvriprms 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i married my husband because i loved him and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him.
2006-10-03 23:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by Tonya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋