I don't need help with that one!
2006-10-03 16:12:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I believe that married men are not very different from women in this regard. He wants to be loved, respected, valued, appreciated, and, yes, desired. Tell him these things directly -- that you love him, are proud of him, are glad that he's your man, are happy to be his woman, appreciate his hard work, and think he's great dad.
You said you don't help with sex, but this is about communication. Does he know that he makes you horny? Tell him.
And, while it is a cliche, don't underestimate the power of cooking -- especially thoughtful cooking. If there is some food that he really likes that you rarely prepare, cook it up or take him out to get it.
2006-10-03 16:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend to him dont be jsut a wife. Just like women expect men to listen women should do the same if it makes us happy it does them as well. Make him feel like he is being taken care of if he works all day make him feel speacial when he gets home. Greet him at the door with a kiss and ask him how was his day and be ready to listen if he had a bad day. Ask him questions so he knwos that you are listening. When he wakes in the morning get up with him and drink a cup of coffee with him to set his day off jsut right. I hope this helps it did when i was married but i am now divorced so umm maybe i did something wrong cus umm he found somoen else.
2006-10-03 16:26:30 · answer #2 · answered by tiggerluvnmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men as a rule are easier to please than women are. They require simpler things. Most men need for their wife to take care of herself by keeping up with her looks and figure, a clean house and a good meal. The sex part you said you already have figured out. I do think men need to be told that they are strong and smart. That they are needed and wanted. Everyone needs some encouragement from time to time. A marriage is like a job you have to work at it everyday, if you let things go then it becomes less appealing. Give 100% of effort and in return you will get double the rewards. It is good to see someone still cares.
2006-10-03 16:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by sideways 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he is well taken care of. I'm a more traditional woman, so I feel that the best way to make a man happy is to take care of him. Cook him dinner, keep the house nice, that sort of thing. But a lot of women disagree with that. Just do little things that you know he'd appreciate.
2006-10-03 16:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by MegW12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fix him a great meal with all of his favorite foods.
Write him a letter telling him how much you appreciate him.
Send him flowers just because. Men love that as much as women. Send them to his job and everyone will be impressed by how much you care about him.
2006-10-03 16:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always greet him with a smile and a hug,tell him you love him and wait for awhile before the bad news or the questions.
2006-10-03 16:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you two have good communication skills! Also compromise on things. Relationships have to have give and take.
2006-10-03 16:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by PinkHighHeels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Participate in whatever hobby he has. For instance if he likes sports buy tickets to a game for you guys.
2006-10-03 16:15:45 · answer #8 · answered by BWLJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't nag, be fun. But be yourself, love yourself, be happy with yourself, do things to grow. That will always keep him happy.
2006-10-03 16:16:15 · answer #9 · answered by mariposita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Plain and simple.
When I am asked what can be done to make me happy, THAT makes me happy!
:)
2006-10-03 16:15:37 · answer #10 · answered by Boodie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋