Well, I've known this boy for a while and he says that he loves me and has never met anyone like me before. We haven't seen each other in a while. While I seem like I would like 2 spend time and hang out with him, he seems like he would rather spend that time to eat me out or for me to give him some head. He's been asking me about it and I'm not sure. When I ask him he he likes me for my umm...feminine attributes, he says that he doesn't and that he likes me for me and that him liking me, wants to satisfy me (and himself). I'm not sure what to do especially because it would be more of a sacrifice for me to make time to see him than it is for him. I don't know if he I should give him virginity or not because he seems like he becomes depressed when I deny him of it (by the way he also claims that he is a virgin too and that he wants to lose his virginity to me since he said that he loves me so much). I need help quick because his b-day is soon and that is what he would like to do.
2006-10-03 16:08:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if he REALLY loves you he would mary you, or give you what you deserve, your space and privicy, besides you seem daubfull about him, don't do it, if you want this relationship to last then it should be special, and losing your virginity to some one that wont be there for you for long is not smart. I'm a virgin too, and I wouldn't have sex just because I love my dad, my God, and my Grandpa. they want to protect me and doing something like that would be like slaping them all in the face and saying I don't care.
2006-10-03 16:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by SaLeMiZmE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why in the world would you give in to such a request? Are you 100% sure that he is going to marry you? What are you going to do if you get pregnant?
Word of caution, girls......
It is much easier to prevent yourself getting into trouble rather than getting out of trouble. It is much easier to say NO rather than chasing a man after he got what he wanted. it is much easier to say "call it quits" if your relationship didn't work out rather than asking him to pay the price he owe .
2006-10-03 23:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let this boy fool u. save yourself--sex isn't all its cracked up to be and if that's what he wants he's a virgin remember he won't miss what he's never had.........don't be so nieve get him a cd or something what u have to offer u can never get back don't sacrifice yourself for no one it won't be worth it . if you say (he claims to be a virgin) than you are a little unsure yourself. follow your heart say no
2006-10-03 23:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. He is just trying to win the prize and is not worthy of it. You don't seem to do much else together and he is just leading you on. Save your virginity and your pride. They are yours and should be treasured.
2006-10-04 02:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by Theresa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just trying to get laid. How old are you? Are you a virgin? If not , maybe he knows that and he's trying to use it to his advantage.
2006-10-03 23:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Raging hormones... Sounds like he will go to any means to get
what he wants, I hope you are wearing your boots, cause if you
are falling for that line of Bull Sh*t...... make him respect you and
not force you to do what you are not ready to do..... so what if it
is his birthday.......get him a puppy.....sheesh
2006-10-03 23:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by RiverRat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not comfortable with it, then don't give anything up!! Wait untill you are ready.
2006-10-03 23:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by Rochelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋