There's a girl at my school and she always has to be in the spotlight with me!I mean if I'm in the highest math group,she has to be too!What do I do to be in the spotlight alone or once??For once I would like to have something my way!!!!!!
2006-10-03 15:52:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Science & Mathematics ➔ Mathematics
I know it's frustrating when someone competes with you - especially when you didn't want the competition in the first place! But what's important isn't being the best, it's how you handle not being the best. If she is better than you at stuff then so be it. There will always be someone who is better at stuff than you are. And it's ok for that to be true. Life isn't about winning all the time. It's about knowing that you gave it your best and dealing with, whatever position you come in at, gracefully.
2006-10-03 16:12:08 · answer #1 · answered by Qooki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 01:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by roever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, let's get to the real issue. You like her. You really like her.
Hey, I know this is awkward now, but, don't worry, that'll change. Start dating her in a few years, and then you two can marry and have incredibly intelligent children together.
2006-10-03 16:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get used to it. There's always going to be someone smarter, prettier and more talented than you. That's life. Learn to be gracious about instead of a big crybaby.
2006-10-03 16:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drama, drama... you don't want the spotlight girl. then everyone would think of you they way you think of her. better to be second in the class and retain your friendships.
2006-10-03 15:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she isn't the smartest. Maybe she is just the hardest working? What do you do with your evenings?
2006-10-03 16:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by PaulCyp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i usually find a glass ashtray to the back of the head usually works.
2006-10-03 23:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to be like you, take it as a compliment!
2006-10-03 16:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by hayharbr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋