Don't EVER complement a woman on how she looks, what she wears, her eyes, skin, NOTHING WHAT SO EVER.
Believe it or not, once you reveal ANY of this, she will not respect you anymore. Nice guys finish LAST...now YOU know. Don't be a loser like me for the past 15 years. No more Mr. Nice Guy!
2006-10-03 15:50:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Nice guys may not finish the race before the jerks, but the nice guys end up with the best. Maybe it's the type of girls your trying to pair up with. While immature, I definitely gravitated toward the jerks, but when I finally grew up, I chose a nice guy. Not to toot my own horn, but I have always been an attractive woman who was never short on suitors - so with said, my nice guy certainly finished the race, just later then the rest. A mature woman of good character will always find more value in a man who is respectful and considerate over a self focused man.
2006-10-03 16:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by Choochie Larue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously your hurting right now thats to be expected. but don't give up the ship. there are decent women out there. and you did the right thing by expressing to her how you felt and complimented her just as you would like to be complimented on something that looks good on you or your body face etc...
Get back in the saddle keep looking but dont' change yourself for her. You want a girl who likes you for you. not for acting a certain way. You won't be able to carrry that act forever anyways.
good luck. you'll do fine you wait and see. :-)
2006-10-04 00:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to these girls who say they want a nice guy. they always want a jerk to turn into a nice guy. there is some truth that many attractive girls will end up with nice guys, but they have most likely been played by dozens of jerks before they settle with the nice guy who respects them. who wants to be the guy who gets that "prize". most of us guys joke about the dweeb that gets our ex's - we know that they still think about us in the sack, and would be with us if they could. rent the movie "best in show" and enjoy the parody about the nice guy that goes to visit one of the wife's ex's. hilarious.
2006-10-03 23:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by jbg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's definitely not true. I don't know where you're from, but everywhere else, women like a guy that respects, loves, and compliments her.
2006-10-03 23:00:07 · answer #4 · answered by I L♥VE YOU! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actully being a girl i like being complamented and it makes me respect the guy becase her respects me but when ever it is consitanly it get a little anoying!!
2006-10-03 22:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by Dakota H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somones bitter...actually, in the end, this doesn't work. we want nice guys! just not TOO nice, wussy kinda guys. but we want them to be respectful and nice. i hate conceided jerks..i want nothig to do with them. and even if girls do, it's usually superficial.
2006-10-03 22:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by 47skittles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's so untrue!we love compliments especially on the first date you must be doing something else wrong.tell the truth now
2006-10-03 23:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you keep them feeling insecure, they will always cling to you. when you build them up, they will take their new found confidence out to find someone else who will make them feel stupid and insecure again. it is the nature of girls (and some guys) with low self esteem.
2006-10-03 22:54:10 · answer #8 · answered by JJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i guy tells me im beautiful... it makes me more interested in them... trust me.. you will blow it by being the mean guy... the nice guy always finishes last...but he is with her till the end
2006-10-03 22:55:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I simply can't believe this is true. There must be something else going on.
2006-10-03 22:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋