Im 15 years old and I only have one friend. Do you wanna hear why i only have 1 friend? if u dont then please awnser another question.A year and a half ago i had hundereds of friends.. My one friend that i hung around evrey day got mad because she told her mom she was staying with me and took off without telling anyone but me where she was going.. Her mom clled the next morning and asked me where was she.. and i told her because anything could happened to her.. So then she came home mad.. she forgave me.. 2 weeks later she got mad at me and she has been harrassing me ever since.. And I met all of my friends through her. Accept the one i have now.. And i cant talk to her all day evrey day.. How am i supposed to go outside of my house and meet new friends when every where i turn i see her or her friends? Im not scared but i dont wanna be alone walking. Anyways im confused, stressed, depressed.. and lost.. so therfore the onlt thing i have to do is get on the comp.. more details below
2006-10-03 15:49:44 · 5 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I had two cousions.. one of them moved right before my best friend died to kentucky a little over a year ago.. and she called me in January and we talked and i told her that damon {best friend} died.. We talked evreyday.. She decided to come up and visit.. She stayed at my house for 6 days.. and went back to kentucky, created a myspace account and we started arguing because she lied to one of my friends...and I was all ways there for her.. her mom was and still is a crack head and thats why she moved in the first place.. but anyways she was over my house evrey day and ussally stayed the night friday's saturdays and came over the whole day sundays. And I bassiclly fed hher and gave her clothes most of the time.. And i feel used in that situation. The my other cousion was talking about my worst enemy then became best frinds with her and lied and said my brother got shot.. She fed me lies evrey day.. I got sick of it and 2 months ago I decided that i didnt wanna be her friend/ cousion any
2006-10-03 15:50:05 · update #1
anymore.. i allready take Lexapro for deppression... but this danm social disorder or what ever it is is breaking me into peices.. HELP... SERIOUS AWNSERS ONLY PLEASE
2006-10-03 15:51:01 · update #2
i talked to my mom, her, her mom.. and they all are not doing anything about it
2006-10-03 15:59:42 · update #3
I really think this is more than you should deal with alone. Ask your parents to take you to a therapist-- it could really help.
2006-10-03 15:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because they are her friends does not mean they cannot be your friends. Honestly if they were any friends at all then they would still be your friends. as for meeting other people, that person cannot know everyone in the area :P I do understand the need to have people around, but my guess is you are in school still and things will change later on, you may even become friends with her again. My advice is just meet some new people, either at school or what not. That girl that harrasses you, you don't need to listen to anything she says, you know who you are, and there is nothing she can do that will change anything about you :P from my past things like this happen, she is trying to create her own identity and that is why she is being mean. but you should stay who you are and just meet people around, even if they are her friends if they are anyone worth knowing they will be yours too. Just please take heart in knowing that highschool is not how the world is, once high school is over everything changes and for most I think it changes drastically for the better.
2006-10-03 23:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are letting yourself down as an able bodied
person. You can either choose to be used or pick yourself up dust yourself off and start back from where you started. You did the right thing by telling the young ladies mother where she was. At least the girl is alive and able to tell her stories. Many girls who just take off are found dead or in some pimps lair.Have a good life.
2006-10-03 23:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well - my advice is that maybe you should talk to her? try to get her alone. If that's impossible...maybe you should get a teacher to act as the middle man and help you talk to her. Or you can to an adult - I know parents are hard to talk to, is there any other older person you trust?. I'll pray for you right now to get the help you need, because I definitely understand what you are going through.
2006-10-03 22:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by branches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow complicated. I dont think u can deal with this alone.
2006-10-04 13:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by dunhate235 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋