Whats the difference between flirting and coming on to someone?
2006-10-03 15:40:37 · 14 answers · asked by bookworm1885 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
One you are seeking their attention and the other you are seeking a sexual liason
2006-10-03 15:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think flirting is for those who dont take it seriously, you can flirt with others just to make them happy and feel good even though you dont have any feelings like that with them. Or flirt to look sexy to others and dont have to have any care for them in that way at all. Coming on to someone is trying to get their attention because you would like to be more than friends, its making the first move and making it obvious that you want more.
2006-10-03 22:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting usually is done between 2 people who know nothing is going to happen and it is all talk. Coming on to someone is when you meet someone and start pushing your self on them trying to deliberatelly get a rise out of them and get with them.
2006-10-03 22:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not too big a difference. Id say though that Flirting is more fun and there is mutual participation vs. a come on is more one person to a non participant.
2006-10-03 22:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by poof10958 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting is light and easy going, fun. Coming on to someone is an actual attempt to have sex with them.
2006-10-03 23:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by k-net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The level of aggressiveness. Coming on is more direct.
2006-10-03 22:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intentions.
2006-10-03 22:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say none. It sounds like someone trying to split hairs so they can get away with something.
2006-10-03 22:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by hilltopper_lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aggressiveness. coming on to someone is more direct, like whats-his-name said.
2006-10-03 22:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by kiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no difference
2006-10-03 22:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋