okay..im really in love with this gurl and me and her have been together for over a yr. now and my family wont exept the fact that i am a lesbian and that i love this gurl ... they would rather push me away than compermize? waht should i do and how do i handle this ... i really love her and she means the world to me ...
2006-10-03 15:29:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Oh what a difficult situation you find yourself in. Truth being told acceptance by one's family is very important at the age you sound like you are - you sound quite young. But even if you are my age it would be difficult to find myself loving someone that my family does not like and wont accept.
I have a loved one who has at one time said that she felt lesbian tendencies. I have prayed hard on this and don't feel myself able to accept this life style in my life but to stop loving this person I hope I would never do. I have been blessed I think and I hope because it is possible that she says she is not lesbian now just because she saw how upset it made me. I hope this is not the case as I would not want this loved one to live that lie alone.
But loving the person and hating the decision/act is a hard line to walk and I don't know myself to be that strong.
But in the end, and this is what I told my loved one, it is a decision that you have to make for yourself - yes, a decision - far more people have had these tendencies than have acted on them realizing, perhaps, over time that it was another trial that they had to go through to gain the strength needed for some other life challenge, I think anyway. I hope that if my loved one had made this decision I would have held her close - hating the life style because I know it is wrong but continuing to love the person.
That's my opinion and thoughts on the matter. God bless you and your family,,,,
2006-10-03 15:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by Goodmomma1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry a man
and then just fool around with the financial support of a man
no guy would divorse u for cheatingon him with another girl
2006-10-03 22:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u tried to have some conversation whit them?
may be u just wait for a guy that can make u love him.
if there's no men can make u fallen in love. just be ur self.
2006-10-03 22:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by richi rasyid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with your heart and see what's right for you...ask yourself do you wanna leave your family for good? or leave the one you love? who is more important to you?, but try to sit with your family and talk to them, tell them you're their kid and should support you in every way, they're all you got
2006-10-03 22:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Meow♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO WITH YOUR HEART. DON'T TRY TO PLEASE YOUR PARENTS B/C IT'S YOUR HAPPINES AND YOUR LIFE.
2006-10-03 22:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be with her
2006-10-03 22:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by willy9e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋