i mean that i weight 88 pounds and im 4'11. people say im not bony skinny, that i just need meat on my bones. do u think that guys like this kinda skinny. because all guys dont just like curvy gurls. some like very skinny or obese. help???!!!!
2006-10-03 15:27:14 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
im 15 years old
2006-10-03 15:42:35 · update #1
everyone says that i have skinny legs and arms. the only thing i hate. i look creepy
2006-10-03 15:44:41 · update #2
This reminds me of myself when I was your age.
All through middle school and high school I never weighed above 98 lbs. Seriously...I NEVER reached 99 lbs! I was always depressed and self conscious about my body. My legs and my arms were what stuck out the most cause they were so skinny. Girls always envied my flat stomach, but other than that they always said I was too skinny. I didn't have a round a** or boobs.
I never did much physical activity cause I was too embarrassed about my body. As I got older, I slowly started to develop more curves, I was still skinny though.
Long story short, I'm now 24 yrs old, 5'2" and I weigh 115 lbs. I didn't start to develop a figure till my late teens and into my early 20's.
I wish I could go back and not worry so much about the way my body looked or what other people thought about it. Have fun and enjoy your teenage years. I'm sure there are lots of girls who would love to be as thin as you, they just don't want to admit it. Just take a look at all the runway models who are skinny. Anyway, just make sure you are healthy. Eat right and exercise and you'll be just fine. Forget the guys who aren't into skinny girls. Love yourself for who you are...people will ALWAYS talk no matter what!
Take care and good luck! :)
2006-10-04 03:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
SAY This (five times)
I AM BEAUTIFUL!! (ok five times- while looking in the mirror)
You are going to be just fine. This may sound like some thing mom would say but here goes-
The fact of the matter is that guys dont notice- they are drawn to. They have a flaw that causes them to like a pretty girl- NO MATTER WHAT- Skinny, tall, short, curvey, just as long as she is appealing to the eye. Generally that will be cause of a out fit she is wearing or a style of hair or a smile on her face. Guys are always gonna look (you may not always see them)
Honestly it is a curse to be too beautiful- It is then that you never know if the guys are loving you for your mind, spiritualality or that fleshly desire thing. Know this- there will be a day- that you will look in the mirror and LOVE the person YOU see. (as long as you dont stay the person that cares if guys are checking you out) Go sit down in frondt of a mirror and try putting on makeup- defining you best features (everybody has some) Make the make up look real natural- nothing too fake or flashy- just natural- curl your eye lashes, put on lipgloss, powder you face, put on a tad of blush (on the apple of your check bone) then curl you hair ( or get a fresh new cut that is modern and complements your face.
Just get to know how fun it is to be you.
I am now 37 years old. I used to be a really tall lanky boney girl at 15- I would eat whole half gallons of ice cream. I would pray to gain some weight and wanted some boobs. It took til I was almost thirty to finally gain some weight. But as it turns out-All those things are totally secondary to the real purpose of life. Those reasons will eventually make them selves obvious to you- in due time. Just know in your heart that god made you the way you are for a reason. He loves you- and that is all that truely matters. When you accept that - you will then have eyes drawn to you wanting (not what you look like) but what you have- And that is the LOVE that will reside in you. You are beautifull!! SAY IT!! Eventually you will start to believe it. Love yourself!! And then (only then) the love will come pouring in!!
2006-10-03 16:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by tbaby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kinda funny huh? Men seem to like those that are not skinny and not fat. Whatever that looks like. Maybe barbie?
Want to put on some muscle so you have curves. Just make power protein shakes at least once per day with WHEY POWDER. You add 1/4 cup WHEY, 1/2 cup of milk or soymilk, 1/4 cup berries (strawberries or blueberries or even peaches), 1/2 carton of plain yogurt and some ice cubes. Whip it up in a blender and add sugar or honey to taste. Makes a great shake and is guaranteed to put on muscle (not bulky muscle like men). You will have shape in no time, just keep it up. Be consistant.
2006-10-03 15:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by Nevada Pokerqueen 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you will grow to have some curves you're still young! i'm sure guys find your body fine. i had chicken legs when i was younger but i grew to be curvy. i'm still slim, just with curves. as long as you aren't bony i think it's ok. i mean, there's a difference between a naturally skinny girl, and a girl that forces skinnyness upon herself by starvation. these girls are bony and gaunt and grose to look at. natural skinny girls are just small...not bony, which seem's like the case for you. wear nice clothes that are fitted and show off your skim body. if you are really worried about it you could start working out to get some curves (weight training) but i would give it a few years and see where you are at. good luck! and you are right...not all guys like curvy girls, not all guys liek skinny girls, guys just like girls, and if they care that much about the exact body type them forget them.
2006-10-03 16:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by 47skittles 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most guys I've seen either go for the **** or for the girls face. I guess it depends on what kind on neighborhood you're in but I'm a little over two inches taller than you and weigh 90 pounds and people tell me that I'm not skinny. So I guess the people where you live like their girls chunky. It doesn't matter anyway. They're probably just being asses because they wish they could be as tiny as you are. :)
2006-10-03 15:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's common to say guys like skinny girls, but they also prefer a little bit of the "love handles". Being overweight is usually a turn-off, but having a female six-pack of ribs isn't great. Look at Nichole Richie and all the other celebs. that are too skinny. It's just gross, and looks like starving children in Africa. A guy doesn't want a girl that reminds them of the inhumanities of the world.
2006-10-03 15:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can understand, only the situation in my environment is quite different; about 20% of our population is relatively skinny! As long as you're maintaining a healthy lifestyle, you're fine. There's no point trying to gain some more weight just so that guys find you attractive... just be yourself, and exercise and eat appropriate amounts of nutritious foods regularly.
2006-10-03 15:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by WaterfallOfDestiny 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I'm 15 too and people tell me I'm too skinny but I don't think I am. I'm 5'6 and 110 pounds and my family always says I'm too skinny. My cousin said the other day that my mom needed to hold my mouth open and shove food down my throat! It really sucks but I can't gain weight and I don't want to either.
2006-10-03 16:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by football chick 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
men like something to hold on to, you don't want to turn to the person next to you in the morning and feel something that feels like your d*ck. Get some meat on your bones at least gain 25 pounds and then work out in the gym to tone it up so you can get some curves.
2006-10-04 06:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by ArDene'e 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have afriend whose skinny and she gets guys,love yourself for who you are not for what people think you are beautiful inside and out and noone can take away you uniquness.some girls are anorexic now because they wanna be your size your more likely to get a job as a model so be happy with who you are but if you start gaining weight dont become anorexic(lol) just be yourself and I know somebody will love you for that
2006-10-03 15:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by cleanheart 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋