My husband is always looking at girls whenever I am around, although he will tell me Im crazy when I point it?

Question

out to him and make me feel like an insecure woman. The thing is he tends to look at underaged girls ALOT, like 14 or 17ish. Whenever we are driving in the car and pass a school he will always eyeball the pretty teenagers...even when I am there. Iam 25 and this is really annoying the **** out of me, he is 32 btw. The thing is he doesnt care about my feelings or what I say, if he wants one of those girls (someone younger) then why doesnt he just say so, instead of making me feel like shitt. Also whenever I look at another guy (usuually to get bak at him, so he knows how it feels) He will tell me to go fuckk off and be with them, like its perfectly fine for him to look but not me. Cant he at least respect me and do this when I am not around???

I think the real reason i get mad is because he is looking at teens, I mean women...would you want your hubby staring at some pretty 15 year old when you are there with him?

Answer 1

He sounds like some of the teenagers he stares at with that kind of behavior.

Answer 2

The truth will set you free,
But first it will p#ss you off.

Woman, he is a pervert. He is a selfish jackass.. If he ever gets the opportunity, he will do it, and you will be dragged through hell in the meantime. What is good for the goose is good for the gander. If it is OK for him to look and not you, it is not worth it to stay with him. Jealous people are jealous over a guilty conscience. I notice you made no mention of being jealous yourself, only hurt and insecure. What does this tell you? Men will look, true. Normal men will look mostly at attractive, mature women This guy stares at only teens. You already know what this means, deep inside. You all but came right out and said what you fear the most. You know deep inside he will never respect you. You know he will never, ever tell you this. Pay attention to your gut. Get counseling, and leave for your sake. Also for your kids' sake, whether you have them now or in the future. Especially if you ever have a little girl.

My source? my sister and my niece, and others I have met along the way.

I Wish you the best of luck & guts. You will need both.

2nd answer. Look back through this list and notice what kind of answers the women give you, then look at what the guys say. You notice the pattern? All except Tiffany. By the way, 14 year olds are often in middle school, tiffany. And some of those 14 year olds are probably actually only 12 or 13.

Answer 3

Some men just can't see past their own damn nose to show the real kind of love women should be receiving from them. We put all our trust in them and they treat us like a toilet. He is working on your self-esteem to slowly destroy it so he can be the macho chauvenistic controlling pig he likes being. Afterall, what man will admit to any accountability for his actions? You are young, and he manipulates that too. The fact that he is looking at even younger girls is a warning sign. If he's doing it in front of your face, you can only imagine what he does when you're not around. The fact he yells at you when you look is a clear sign of guilt. The guilty always point the finger. Are you able to support yourself and your child? If so get out of there and show your independence. That's a wake up call for most men if they truly love their wives. Get some help from your family and friends. And never let him intimidate you again.

Why the hell would you want him to do it when you're not around? He shouldn't be doing it in the first place! Respect is something he needs to learn. But after going through this myself, I really can't say that at his age he will ever learn any. Question is, do you want this for the rest of your life? I certainly hope not! I feel for ya.

Answer 4

It is only a normal reaction for people to look at the opposite sex. I mean you can't say you do not look at the opposite sex as well... Are you sure he just checks out teens or is that you assuming that? For the sake of the men unfortunately a lot of girls don't look like girls anymore. Now if he is hanging down at the middle school I would worry.

Do you say things when you check out other guys? With his reaction I would say so.

Don't be so insecure with yourself and don't forget he married YOU.

Answer 5

believe u me if he's disrespecting u in your face i can only imagine what he's doing behind your back.....the true him is coming out and he feels comfortable showing u because u haven't put your foot down...and it really probably doesn't bother him if you look at another man. the tall tell signs are there this is definitely not the man for u...He won't and doesn't respect your feelings or care what u think if he can so casually do this.if you settle for something you'll settle for anything don't be that naive throw that trash to the curb,put your foot down. (this is not the first and it damn sho won't be the last) u deserve better

Answer 6

You two sure sound like a couple of teens yourself. He looks at other girls ( young girls) & all your worried about is looking at other guys "to get him back". Honey that's the least of your problems. Remember, you picked him, not only to be with but also to father a poor innocent child. I'm wodering if someone should get their head examined?

Answer 7

It's natural for people to look. I don't think there is a problem with it as long as it is just looking. He shouldn't get mad at you for looking either.

Answer 8

I think he has a problem.....it's one thing to look at other girls but to be looking over young teen girls is creepy for a guy that old.......I don't blame you I'd look over the guys myself....tell him what a nice asss they have that should get his goat...............

Answer 9

girl it sounds like hes a pervert. you need to tell him how u feel and if he don't listen then its time for you move on

Answer 10

U should oogle every hot guy u see...... just KEEP giving him a dose of his own medicine..............if he tells u stuff tell him stuff too......