For not wanting my daughters fathers bf to be here god mother because he told me he slept with her? Also I just recently decided to im 1 of his friends cuz i had a feelin sum1 was telln them lies. So when I did I found out that my babys father was telling them that I didnt like both of them because I thought he ****** them and that I didnt want them to be my daughters godmother. When I just said I didnt like 1 of them and he told me he slept with the 1 I dont want being my daughters godmother. I know its kind of confusing just bare with me. why would he lie like that? What else is he lying about? also am I wrong because me and him have been broken up for about a month and I started talking to this dude I went to H.S with that happens to be a friend of my daughters father. I told my daughters father and he got mad about the situation so I cut it off with the guy. But now he's been telling all his friends and the 1 friend told me that I was wrong for that. I felt it wasnt any of her biz
2006-10-03 15:15:13 · 9 answers · asked by dimergurl247 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You lost me on this one.
2006-10-03 15:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took quite a while to translate all that into real English. I'm not sure I got the whole middle part. But what I'm hearing is, Is it okay for you not to want the friend of your daughter's father to be her godmother, right?
Okay, I've got a problem with something. You're talking about someone coming with you to church, to stand before God and make vows pertaining to the religious upbringing of your daughter. That's what a godmother does. But in the same paragraph, you're throwing the F word around.
I don't mean to disrespect you, but I think the whole "godmother" thing is just a little part of what you need to deal with. Deal with the whole picture first, and then figure out just what the point is of having a godmother for your daughter.
You've got quite a bit to sort out. Since you're thinking along the lines of godparents, I'd suggest you find a trusted clergyperson to talk with. It's not their job to judge you, but will listen to you and give you solid feedback.
2006-10-03 22:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do what is best for your daughter. To hell with the other people. They can't tell you what to do. You have to do what you feel is right. If you like the other guy tell everyone else to kiss your butt. Take care of your child andlook out for yourself. That is what matters. Don't get a headache from those other people.
2006-10-03 22:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by Ready G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes on with you and your b/f is between you 2 not any one else and no i don't think you were wrong you have every right to not want them to be you daugther god mother. I been in your shoes follow what your gut tell you cause if you do something you don't feel is right it will haunt you later in life.
2006-10-03 22:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ultimately your decision who will be your daughters Godmother.That is all I can come up with since you need to rephrase your whole question to be correctly answered.
2006-10-03 22:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are wrong for trying to confuse me.now get of the sauce and write back later with a question that makes sense.
2006-10-03 22:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much drama. I wouldn't approve of it either. I wouldn't want the father's bf to be one anyway.
2006-10-03 22:19:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you have issues well he sleeps with his friends if i read you right so whats wrong when you do it.
2006-10-03 22:25:17 · answer #8 · answered by ladyrena12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
2006-10-03 22:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by jujub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋