that is CUTTING them self???
2006-10-03 15:14:55 · 6 answers · asked by take alot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
TALK TO THEM! Let the person know that they are hurting themself, and that it isn't work putting themself the pain, and that you care about this person enough that you don't wan't to see he/she in pain. If this person won't listen, then I would consider talking to a counselor, your parents, or theirs. Don't tell your friends because it isn't worth the risk of this information leaking out. There's a lot of pressure not to "rat out" people, but you are not ratting this person out. You are actually helping this person by enabling he/she to realize that he/she is hurting themself, and allow this person to receive help before this person further damages themself.
2006-10-03 15:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone ....of course this may not seem like the right thing and you may feel like you are betraying them if they are your friend but that is the only way for them to seriously get help to stop from hurting themself which could lead to worse things because if they are stressed enough to cut themselves then they could let their stress build up and end up doing something worse like possibly commiting suicide and if something like that were to happen then you would feel terrible knowing that you knew what was going on but didnt tell anyone that could help them get back on track ...do what you think is right in helping this person STOP !!!
2006-10-03 22:23:32 · answer #2 · answered by Helper..Hopefully 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them, but be careful what you say cause it could just make them sadder and they'll go self-mutilate themselves again. Let them know your there for them and they have people who love him/her and don't want anything to happen to them. It's hard though, trust me I know..but just keep reminding them that your always there for anything they need and it makes you sad that there hurting themselves. Good luck.
2006-10-03 22:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by jaylee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get them some help
2006-10-03 22:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk w her.and dun try to go n tell anyone coz she might wna keep it to herself.she wldnt want d whole world to knw wut she has been doing.its just dat u discovered it urself dat she's been hurting herself.
ask her abt her problems n maybe she wld wna share it.probably d reason dat she's been doing dat is becoz she has no one to turn into.and try to help her d best dat u cld.
2006-10-03 22:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by zati_dy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them why. Tell them that it worries you and tell them they should stop and that they can turn to you for advice
2006-10-03 22:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋