Excepet the ones that were asked yesterday and today this one is really REAL I need HELP. Here it goes yesterday was a jewish holiday and all public schools were off, so a person threw a unsupervised party yesterday i went duh anyway there was punch someone had put a acohol in it i knew something was in it by the taste but i didnt care it made me even want to drink it more i did . i got drunk! i went wild a friend told me i was flashing people! i always wanted to do that but i never did. anyway a cute high school guy who is a friend and is 16 and has a car took me to his house and but me on his ved and let me sleep there with an ice pack on my head i woke up and he drove me home. he sooo sweeet. but when i went to school people were calling me a slut. They thought i slept with him!!!! im a virgin! Everyone thought that cause im really popular how can i clear this up!i ahbvisoly didnt do it with him cause im in 14(my b-day was yesterday) and hes 16 turning in amonth how can i clearthis
2006-10-03 15:03:14 · 9 answers · asked by Pretty in pink 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ur mistake you got drunk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sry iono wat to tell ya =[ u shouldnt of lied in the other questiuons because how do we no if this is true?
2006-10-03 15:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by ♥[[Mia]]♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay Pink, so now you are 14 instead of 19. I notice the spelling has improved a great deal. I'm still curious as to where your parents are in this mix- or are they still leaving you all alone to live with the maid and butler, and younger sister? I'm also curious where you live that the Jewish holiday of Yom Kippur would be a day off from school. I am also a little suspicious that some boy would take you home and his parents would not become involved somehow. Lots of parents missing in this, you know?
If your scenario is actually true, there is nothing you can do to keep the tongues from wagging. Your state of virginity, or lack thereof, is a matter only for you and a future partner. Those who like you will believe you, those who don't like you will believe what they want to believe, and those who don't know you don't care.
The problem with your questions and stories is that they are pretty unbelievable in themselves. Compound that with the fact you have been caught and have admitted to lying previously- and you come up short on the believability scale. If this is the way you behave with your friends, they aren't going to believe what you say anyway. The reputation of being a liar sticks with you for a long time, too. Folks will get to the point that they won't believe you no matter what you say- unless they get confirmation from somebody they do trust. Didn't you ever hear about the boy who cried wolf? He got ate because nobody would believe him in the end.
2006-10-03 23:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by The mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well dear you have found out a hard lesson.what you need to worry about more than what others think of you is the fact you did get drunk.this will only lead to more serious things as you get older.first make sure that you dont put yourself in this situation again.as for what other say their is nothing you can say or do to change it.people are going to say whatever creates a buzz.it does not matter whether its you or someone else people want something to talk about.Dont open doors up for them to have things to say about you.
2006-10-03 22:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by porkchophaynes0206 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hone people thank what they want to. Dont defend your self, plow them off. If you fell the need to say anything say this "You know things happen in life and I hope when something happens to you I hope I'm understanding and I dont read into things like you have." then walk away. Time is on your side and id best friend when others lie....the trurth comes out, stand dtrong it will make you a better person..
Bell
2006-10-03 22:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by Bell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. That sucks. But why should we even believe you? You just said your self that you lie all the time. . anyway, there's not much you can do about rumors and people who call you a slut. . Maybe they aren't saying that 'cuz they thought you slept with him, but because you flashed everyone?
2006-10-04 00:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Darko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell ppl u guys r friends nothin more so y would u sleep wit him
2006-10-04 00:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by savannah_kalita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go home with anymore guys.
2006-10-03 22:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by casnraesmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easier to get forgiveness than it is to permission.
2006-10-04 00:41:52 · answer #8 · answered by miked 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell people it isnt true if they dont believe u thats their problem. good luck
2006-10-03 23:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by jordanthegrouch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋