is it acceptable for a guy to have female friend that call him...even tho there is nothing going on?

Question

but it pisssses my gf off....they are ex coworkers...just keeping me updated on things

Answer 1

tell your gf to grow the f**k up

Answer 2

You are off the clock first of all so there is no way females should be calling you a t home unless you are a public servant who has an on call job. If your gf know the female than have her call and ask for your gf and fill her in on what it is you need to know off the clock. If you refuse than your agenda is not work. Treat one another the way you want to be treated and respect your girlfriend she evidently is worried about your friendship and if you care about her then her feelings than acknowledge what she is saying to you. Take Care.

Answer 3

Most women will get pissed off. If nothing is going on, why the need for update of things? For the sake of your gf's happiness and yours, stop the calls. Send them a card once a year at Christmas etc.

Answer 4

If she trusts you, which is the cornerstone of any good relationship, then it should not be a problem. You need to talk to her first and foremost though. Most women feel they are lacking in some area when their man feels the need to confide in another woman. You may not be doing this, but to her that is what it feels like. Be very open with your gf and include her in what the conversations are about, then she may become more comfortable with it.

Answer 5

maybe. It depends on the depth of the frienship. I have many close male friends, and there's nothing there. And what someone else posted is right, usually we are loyal and true friends. I hate how mean girls can be to each other, even as adults, but you don't see that with guys. So if you're lucky enough to have a friend who just happens to be a girl, keep her, and tell your girlfriend to stop being so insecure!

Answer 6

I think it depends on how often these calls are and do you keep your gf in the loop as to what they are talking about. Her thinking is probably why do you even need to be "updated"? It is like you are hanging on to something that is already gone and that is a legit concern for a gf.

Answer 7

It always starts out that way then before you no it you and co-workers are at happy hour and on and on it goes.You might not have anything on your mind but believe me when I tell you this women just don't call men up just to talk about work.She will tell you to call her any time day or night if you ever need someone to talk to what are friends for.Don't take the bate!

Answer 8

OH HELLLLL NOOOO......What the hell is wrong wit chu? If this is your gf , then why do you need to talkin to other females? You need to check the other girl and tell her that ONLY if she see's out in public or happens to run into then it's cool to talk. But there should not be any need for her to be callin you. Especially since they used to work together, they know how each other think.

Answer 9

yes it is i drive a truck over the road and i have several female driver freinds. truely most men will stab another man in the back but a woman who u are not involved with is a friend for life

Answer 10

Yes they can. I have guys call me and hubby has females call him. We have been married for 19 yrs. If he tells you about it then he isn't hidding anything. If he don't hide it then he is telling you the truth. Some of them call us when were in bed and one of us get up and talk. They are calling for a reason.

Answer 11

She's just jealous. You have a right to have friends and she can't take that from you. If she does, then you may grow to resent this over time. She just needs to relax and you need to figure how ways to reassure her that she is the only one for you and that your friends are just that . . . friends.