Do you still find your spouse sexy? Or not at all? Do you have affairs? How long have you been together? And besides this,do you have a good relationship?
2006-10-03 14:59:59 · 13 answers · asked by TrofyWife 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do still find my spouse sexy; shortly, I will go to bed and we will probably have sex tonight. (TMI? I don't think so!) We don't have affairs (although there was one, single, regretable indiscretion about 10 years ago), and we have been married for 20 years as of this last July. We have a very good relationship. We talk, trust, love, do things together, treat each other well, appreciate each other, and more. I like to think we're not so rare, but other times I like to imagine that we have a particularly special relationship. Don't focus on the one negative included in the above; remember that people are human and that we are defined not by the perfection that we cannot achieve, but by the imperfections that we overcome!
2006-10-03 15:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 45 my husband is 47. We have been married for 27 years. I do still find him sexy. We have both had an affair but it was years ago and it was while we were seperated. We do have a good relationship. The seperation we had did both of us a ton of good. We had been married 6 years and had 3 kids. We literally met, moved in together, and married all in 5 months. Nine months later we had our first child - two years later we had our first set of twins. We needed a break. Ever since that break we have gotten along so much better. We talk all the time. He calls me every single day to check on me. If I need to talk to him all I have to do is call. He makes me laugh. To me that is a very important part to any relationship. He is my husband but he is also my friend. I love him more every year we are together.
2006-10-03 22:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by Kim C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 39. Was married 14 years, now divorced. Have been with my boyfriend now almost 7 years. Yes I find him sexy. He's not as fit as when we got together, but it's still the same person. I do not have affairs. We have a fairly good relationship. There are ups and downs. We know we aren't as young as we used to be. There are things that don't matter as much as when we were first together. It seems more relaxed.
2006-10-03 22:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by lazycat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 46
(1) Yes I still find her sexy
(2) Not really.. But sometime i do have crush on some beautiful gals around me
(3) We have been together eversince we got married i.e. 20 years
(4) Yes we do have a good relationship
2006-10-04 03:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.. i have lost interest in him. He does not want to be appealing.And yes i have try to be appealing but it does not work.
We have been together for 6 years married for 5. No we have a really bad one and i can not fix what is wrong. We all have our faults but for his problems i can not help him. I am considering leaving. Well i have pretty much made up my mind. For the others on here i think it is great that they have someone that they are so connected with. I have never found that connection with him. This is rare and i hopefully will find that one day..and yes i have cheated cause it has been a year and i needed to feel connected to someone. He is my best friend for 10 years. We have that connection and always have but the cards never fell in place for us yet, it may never and i may get the what we rip we will soe..Just something i will have to deal with.
2006-10-03 22:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 23 years , I have a 23 year old son ,and where still going strong .I'm very proud of it . My hubby is sexiest man alive .No ,I would never think of having a affair and the same with him. We love and trust each other.
2006-10-03 22:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by pitbullmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
check this out. im divorced after 14yrs of marriage and until the time i divorced my wife i thought she was sexy. i think my g/f is sexy but she does not she herself that way nor does she see me that way cuz to her the only men who are sexy are famous ones and this hurts. we have been together for 9 months and at this time i am very vuneralbe so yes i could have an affair
2006-10-03 22:07:10 · answer #7 · answered by keithy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my spouse is ultra-sexy, we've been together for 22 years and i still think he's hot! i think we do have a good relationship because we both still try to be kind and please each other (in and out of the bedroom). there have not been any affairs
2006-10-03 22:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by nkettler03 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My spouse, though we are seperated, is the sexiest man on earth to me. We met three years ago, our relationship has soured, and i would give the world to fix it. i love this man more than life, and no, i have never had an affair while with him, and i wouldnt ever dream of it. Though we are seperated, i will love him always, i will never forget the vow i made to him on the day i married him, and i will live with that till we divorce. And he will always be the sexiest man on earth.
2006-10-03 23:18:28 · answer #9 · answered by Elly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes I find my husband even sexier than when I met him and we have been together for 13 years and married for nine of those years. we have our disagreements just like any couple but we always work them out. No i do not have affairs and have no desire to cheat on my husband.
2006-10-03 22:17:16 · answer #10 · answered by mama bear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋