Is suicide worth it...?

Question

Is suicide worth it if everyday something extremely bad happens to you and YOU ONLY? Is it worth it if you really extremely know 100% that no one will like you in any way AT ALL? Is it worth it that even your own FAMILY hates you so much and regret giving you life no matter how nice you are to them? Is suicide worth it when the whole entire world are all friends with each other, and you are the only one that the world ignores? Is it worth it?

Answer 1

Suicide is never a reasonable option.

Answer 2

Sometimes it truly feels like the human experience is highly overrated. I felt much the same way as you when I was younger. Even now I feel how agonizing life can be. Pain sucks. It seems that suicide is a solution to this pain. What I can tell you from experience is this:
Mostly all of my heroes suffered terrible emotional pain and were better for it in the long run. I know that doesn't help a whole lot now, but it may.
If you never suffer, you never have any desire to stretch forward, so you pretty much stay the same. Pain is a great catalyst for growth and change because staying in misery sucks.
I have also philosophized and investigated suicide, and that's the truth. For me, however, the bottom line is that at the end of this fantasy called life, I don't want to look back at all the painful situations in my life and see myself as too cowardly or weak to face pain and then turn it into growth and joy.
You wouldn't be feeling like you do for no reason. Don't disappoint yourself. hell, we'll probably have do do it over again if we suicide and it could be even worse. Think how much that would suck.
Look at Vincent Van Gogh, the greatest artist that ever lived. He has no equal when it comes to expressing his pain/passion in his work. He suffered more than anyone I know, but look what he created from the pain. Take the pain and transform it.
There are many that believe we've designed our own lives for this purpose. This may or may not be true, but you do have the ability to transform your life.
Good Luck to You and God Bless

Answer 3

There was a time when I thought that suicide could be a viable option if it relieved the pain that someone was feeling, but then I witnessed the true effects it could have.

A friend committed suicide, their justification was that no one cared and that he was feeling a deep emotional pain that could not be resolved in any other way. What he did not realize in his selfishness is the effect that the suicide could have on those around him. Many people that he knew sunk into depression as a result of his death. The consequences for others included their own attempted suicide, drug problems, and flunking out of school. Some might never recover from what he did.

You might not realize the effect you have on others' lives, but you are as important as anyone out there. You need to examine the reasons for your suicidal thoughts more closely, and make changes to improve your outlook in life. If the problem is your family, talk to them about the feelings you've been having. If they are unresponsive, it is time to remove yourself from the hostile environment by a means other than suicide. If the problem is who you are, maybe you should attempt to change yourself for the better rather than ending the one life you have. Talk to people that can help if you still feel like hurting yourself.

No matter how bleak the situation might seem to be, there is always hope.

Answer 4

No. Suicide is only a get out for you, and you don't need a get out. In the whole WORLD, there are how many billion people? I guarantee that no matter where they are, there would be people that would like you. Sometimes you do things that make people dislike you, sometimes you've done nothing at all, but the importantthing to remember is that no person or peoples are worth losing YOUR life for.

Answer 5

Nope. It only seems that way because we only see the world from our own perspective. It's like being inside small room and getting depressed about how small it is, but if you open the door you'd see the beach is just outside.

Plenty of people have it far worse than you- after all, you could be starving in the Sudan or suffering from crippling diseases, unable to walk or talk. But even in those circumstances, life itself holds the only possibility for things to get better. Suicide doesn't change anything it just leaves everything the way you hated it- permanently.

Answer 6

NO! of course not give life a chance if you did something to make people hate you change it. Ask your family what you did to make them hate you and tell them your sorry that you did that. Ask people nicely and seriously to tell them what you did to make them hate you. A counciler could help you deal with these problems but taking your life away is definetly not the answer try to change the way you live or move to a different place get a new job or go to a new school and change the way you live but suicide is not the answer.

Answer 7

If things were so bad that even the possibility of the smallest friendly gesture, the smallest smile, the briefest kind look, someone holding the door open for you, someone saying good morning, befriending the most disgusting human on the earth, or finding just a penny on the street would seem like a gift from heaven, there would be way to much to live and hope for.

Answer 8

No, everything you are describing is either an unproveable perception (everyone hates me and I am ignored, bad things only happen to me), or a problem that in all total reality just doesn't matter (my family hates me).

Not everyone hates you because not everyone knows you. Bad things happen to everyone (just ask the Amish community in PA who had several female students murdered two days ago). As for your family hating you, then just live for yourself and forget about them.

By the way, I answered your email, so the whole world is not ignoring you (and I'm sure there will be more answers then mine). Suicide is a permanant solution to temporary problems.

Answer 9

Suicide...such a vague term.

Common sense wise suicide is linked to depression, sure we all have our flaws and we are all imperfectionists. And it's absolutely OKAY.

It depends how you look at it. So, if you do commit suicide and you succeed you've crossed the line to never never land, but what if you committed suicide and failed? You can be fately wounded, ill etc... And have you thought about what would happend to the people who actually care about you? What pain you caused them?

You assume family hates your or people don't like you because they care. Trust me, if family seriously hates you, they wouldn't respond to you, you would've been negelected and shut out a long time ago.

Have you ever thought committing suicide is a very selfish act?

At the very end, it's up to you, but just remember the after math of a suicide.

Answer 10

no, thinking about suicide is just a thought that more than 75% of the people have one time or another. It should be that way, only a thought but no action about it. Suicide is an issue that only stresses people more. Will thinking about suicide gring you friends or your family's love? No. The answer is to be nice to everyone, smile, show your parents and siblings you love them and care about them, and everything will change. if You want 2 talk, my addy is [e-mail]

Answer 11

It was , it is and it never will be worth it !
Any person who is able to experience the advantage of freedom of having a body, and a life in it, which ever way it is, would live for himself truly, love himself, his life totally. He then realises his inter-dependence (much above independence or dependence), and acts in such a way, that he may not have to face any hatred from anyone around ! Even if unfortunately, there are people around who happen to hate him, such hatred would not affect him !