I have a connection with an awesome man he is attached by marriage and I know he isnt truly happy. We are very close and I know it's not the best situation to be in. We both care about each other very much but will not take it to the next level. I feel i need to break away but am afraid of losing the bond I have but i also want him to decide on his own what he truely wants. If i stick around i feel I will just cloud his decisions. Is it true what they say let it go and if it comes back it's yours. I'm afraid of losing him but also afraid I'll never have a chance with him if I don't let him go. It's very hard to continue to just be friends with him HELP!!!!!!
2006-10-03 14:40:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
don't mess with a married man
2006-10-03 14:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by drew46759 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he has a really good connection, in all honesty, it sounds like he could have his cake and eat it to. How long has he been "unhappy" in his marriage? If he cann't make up his mind, say within one month of your relationship starting up, then I think you should hit the dusty trail. Why do women ever think that a man will not take advantage of this type of situation, is beyond me. Getting involved with anyone that is married may be fun but it is always wrong and to many people get hurt, includeing the person asking the question. Good Luck......
2006-10-03 21:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by greyghost56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a man who went thru the other woman thing and left his wife for the other woman (which was a big mistake), just be there for him as afriend and let him make his decision with out the destraction of u and if it is ment to be then it will
2006-10-03 21:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by keithy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with ops 1. I'm in a relationship and not happy as well. I'd love to hook up with someone else. Just be careful the wife doesn't find out.
2006-10-03 21:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What qurantee do you have that your friend will forever be happy with you.That friend of yours is married and he is also very selfish for using you,you 're a single woman fly away from that man friend of yours.
2006-10-03 21:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by southking b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men lie about their relation ship with their wife to other women just to get a piece of a$$,if you can handle the name home recking whore that's what people will call you, .this happened to me , we just bought a house, worked every day shared our thoughts on everything then one night he came home and moved his things in another bed room , it hurts really bad to loose you man to another woman but loose your hubby is the worst thing ever happen been 7 years and he is still on my mind...... don't do it
2006-10-03 21:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you push him he will get a divorce,end up with the alimony,then
he is going to be brock all the time and you are gonna be the punching bag,move away from the situation and circle is is hanging
out at,
2006-10-03 21:49:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look if he feels the same as u feel let it take its corse and not get in the way.
2006-10-03 22:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by gxsilver1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just be friends he is married.if you stay in the way he will leave you and her DO NOT get in between them,move on.
2006-10-03 21:47:59 · answer #9 · answered by bigdog 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be friends, he's married, leave it alone otherwise you'll end up in a huge pile of ****
2006-10-03 21:43:46 · answer #10 · answered by Pie Man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋