How come soon as guys find out I wont put out they dont want me anymore? Arent there any guys out there that arent like that? It really hurts my feelings. Is there nothing else interesting about me besides my *** and my boobs?
2006-10-03 14:28:42 · 12 answers · asked by Little Wifey 5 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I should add something. I have a daughter. I have had sex before. But for over four years now I have been practicing a different life style. Making choices a little better. Guy used to fall at my feet. And now they dont even look at me after they know what I am about. I want to have a husband before I have sex again. But it doesnt seem like there are any men out there that think that is ok....
And thank you all for your kindness thus far.
2006-10-03 16:48:41 · update #1
Dearest Froto Braggins,
I admire you and your question simply because there just arent many Gem`s(rare jewels) left in the world such as yourself. What would I give to have a woman of vertue as you have described. I`m married and have been for 13 years, she left my 7 year old son two years ago to have some time alone she said but after coming back 2 months later and lying about her life outside of the home she a year later admitted to a fling with a 24 yoa excon. She`s 43 I`m a 47 yoa retired State Trooper now working CSI with the local medical examiners office. I should never have let her come home and waited for someone such as you.
Stay strong my dear! Maintain your beliefs and you will find the happiness you do so deserve.
Jim
2006-10-05 05:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I would like to commend you for waiting. There are not very many men or women these days that see or believe that saving yourself for your life partner is the best gift you can give them. Next I would like to point out that there is NOTHING wrong with you. Maybe you are just dealing with the wrong kind of men. I can say from experience, that more often than not, men are out only for the sex in the end. Not to many actually care about what a woman has to offer unless it is between the sheets. I'm sure you are a very beautiful person inside and out, any man who walks away because of your personal decision was and is not worth your time anyway. Just keep your chin up, do not give in or lose the faith and always remember that you will kiss a lot of toads before finding your prince. Good Luck !!
2006-10-03 15:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by jenny 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Thats your choice to wait if you so want to.. But once your married and he's terrible in the sack then what you going to do. Sometimes its best to test the goods out first. I'm not saying sleep with the first man you meet. make sure you care for him and when your ready theres no set time.
Most men dont' wish to wait till marriage can't blame them. Besides you could marry a man who isn't into sex that much and then your stuck later on how to deal with that. Some men have low sex drives just as some women.
you dont' want that do you>?
2006-10-03 14:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with waiting to be married to have sex. youre just going to the wrong places to meet men. the ones you find in bars, malls, college, and military barracks are only looking for sex. maybe you should try looking for a husband at church or something similar. the problem for young men of honor is similar. all the places in american culture that are considered to be good places to meet women are only good for meeting used up trash women.
if you intend to find an honorable man, youll have to find out where the honorable men are
2006-10-03 14:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by Stand-up Philosopher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear: I don't think any wrong with that! In this time of life i think all the people will try to tell you: you are old fashion! So don't listen to them! I think the men should respect this! Coz it's like a principle! Sometimes I ask my self why if I just go out with man, he expects just to go with him and have sex! I think any way the man has nothing to lose! But it’s quite different for the woman! Coz I think it ‘s really emotional! not a just Fiscal activity to satisfy my self or to satisfy any won! I mean it’s not like eating and drinking! We are not animal, even sometimes the animal will refuse to do it!
So: what I want to say, the more you make yourself high and not easy to go with the man for???/ The more you could control your self and the more will make him think bout you in different way!
I think now the men even the woman they don’t care for what I ‘m saying, that’s why it’s hardly to see a couple going to settle together as marriage or as B/f and G/friend!
And by the way, it will make you special! So don’t care for anther comments! Just do what you believe in,
by the way. I have friend she never make sex with the man till the marriage believe it or not, the man was not happy about this! But in the end she was trying to explain to him that! And she needs to understand him! And to see pla pa lapla pal you know!
In the end I think you are especial! So you will find especial one!
2006-10-03 14:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by arise 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Before you had the daughter, you could have held out for the virgin marriage and probably found a good man to marry you...
With a daughter, it is going to be really tough to find a man to marry you without having sex first....
Sorry, thats just the way it is...
Not impossible but chances are going to be slim...
2006-10-03 19:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong. Actually, it is the only way for women to protect themselves. Try to find a man with some family values.
I will tell you ladies something very sad about us. After we see a lot of almost naked women bodies every day and after sleeping hundreds of them. Don't expect us to feel love any more. Seriously, we turn out to be monsters! All we think becomes sex.
2006-10-03 15:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he really loves you HE WILL WAIT. Don't let him make you feel bad about it either. Do you really want to be with a guy who will just dump you because you want to wait? There are men out there who will respect that.
2006-10-03 14:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by Angry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waiting before marriage to have sex is honourable. If a man only wants you for sex, then you shouldn't be with him anyway. That obviously means it's merely a physical attraction. When you age, any your beauty fades, or his passion diminishes, he'll abandon you.
And no, you don't need to "test the goods". If sex is coupled with true love, it will always be "good".
2006-10-03 14:44:29 · answer #9 · answered by nice_boobs 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I say more power to you and one day you'll find a guy who thinks you're worth the wait. Don't listen to those jerks you've been dating and don't give it up. That is one of the most imortant decisions you'll ever have to make and you don't want to take it lightly!
2006-10-03 16:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by Vanessa 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋