I am a happily married straight male crossdresser. I like to shave my legs cause of the look and feel. I mostly dress like a man, but wear hose heels panties and bras sometimes under my cloths. My wife is ok with the cd thing sometimes, but how can I get her to be ok with the shaving legs thing?
2006-10-03 14:24:50 · 18 answers · asked by yo 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
As a happily married woman myself, if my husband were to c/d or shave his legs, of course I would question his sexuality at first, who wouldn't, but because I love him so much, I would accept whatever made him happy. We are a package deal and if liked shaving his legs then so-be-it. He shaves his chest hair at least once a month and if he were to shave his legs, then that is something I would have to get used to. Hey, I like wearing his boxer shorts in the summer time to lounge around the house with or his jeans, socks, so what is the problem ladies? You don't wear your hubby's clothes? c-mon be real. If you wife loves you then eventually she will accept the fact you shave your legs. I just have one question though for you. I know my hubby chest itches, do the legs itch as it grows back? Just curious, and good luck. I see a happy marriage and no matter what if you both love each other, she will accept you for who you are and who you may become. Chin up!!
2006-10-03 14:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry you are not alone and just because you are shaving your legs or dressing all "girly" that does not make you a sicko, wrong, perverted, or gay. Don't listen to the other responses from other people. This is a very common problem that is growing through our nation today. And it is not just a problem that guys have many women have it too. The main reason you are doing this is for one of three reasons. A: You are not happy with how your life is going. B: You don't want people to see the real you. C: You want to know what it's like dressing like the other sex. If A is your problem, however, you should see a doctor right away so that things don't get really bad and you have thoughts of suicide. B is more mild but still needs to be taken seriously if this is the problem try and arrange a meeting to get on Oprah or The Dr. Phil Show. Seriously! If C is your problem don't worry one bit you will grow out of it as soon as you know it.
2006-10-03 14:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by leged56 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you make her be okay with your shaving legs thing? What would you think if she were to ask, "How can I make my husband accept his natural (masculine) legs?" You would probably think that she can't expect you to change.... In reality she can't change anymore than you can. Why should this be something she has to accept?
If you're wife is normal, then she may feel threatened by your crossdressing. She may be afraid that she will lose you to your female alter-ego. She will also find it difficult to make love to you when you crossdress.
Why do you need to crossdress at all? Why is it such an obsession? What would happen if you were to stop entirely? Oh, you can't stop,,,, humm. You mean its like an addiction? So you're saying you are so weak that you're hopelessly addicted to wearing women's clothes, wow... How sad. I would hope that there was enough strength of character left in you that you could conquer this for the sake of your wife and children.
Good luck.
2006-10-04 12:10:45 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might not be able to get her OK with it, but I suggest giving this a try-
Get into a hot tub with her and offer to shave HER legs- make it erotic...
Don't pressure her to return the favor, but do tell her that freshly shaved legs (2 sets) turn you on and feel really nice...
Offer to let her shave your legs,.
Go slow, if she giggles and gives it a try, your on the right road...
Peace
2006-10-03 14:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Max 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your very lucky to have your wife understand the crossingdressing thing. I wish my mine did. I'm so tried of wearing her hose behind her back, anyway's I think the biggest hurtle is over
2006-10-04 01:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by hoselover15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reply first, and if the answering makes me consider or makes my day, then I'll famous person. I understand...it is choosy of me, sorry. o.o But this fashion I come to be pointing my fanatics and contacts to the *well stuff* you realize? ^__^ Or no less than I attempt to. But have a celeb besides only for being sufferer and information. ^_^
2016-08-29 08:19:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to her that shaving your legs makes you feel good and comfortable. I'm sure she will understand. That doesn't mean you're gay, many straight guys shave their legs too.
Good luck!!
=D
2006-10-03 14:33:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG... I dont think your telling the truth. No affense but do you wear a bra because you are too fat or something? here's some tips:
-Just wear mens Underwear
- and wear an undershirt instead of a bra
I still think your lying
2006-10-03 14:30:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dk but i wood b more ok with the shaving the legs thing than the cross dressing thing...... its just weird
2006-10-03 14:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anna L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if she's OK with the cross dressing thing, why should she be worried about your legs? sounds to me like the first one is way more "visible" than the other one.
2006-10-03 14:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by latgal73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋