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I just lost a really good friend of mine she was cool but we got in argument now were not friends how can i forget about it and move on with my life?

2006-10-03 14:12:19 · 13 answers · asked by Dude 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

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sorry to hear that. sounds like you're very sad about it. if you can't make amends, i suggest you try surrounding yourself with other people and activities that you enjoy. good luck.

2006-10-03 14:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by ndyou 3 · 0 0

Is the friendship totally gone? Is there a chance once you both have calmed down you might be able to resolve it? Depending on how long your friendship was it could take anywhere from a few days to months, I lost a very good friend over a misunderstanding several years ago, not a day goes by that I don't think about calling her to see if we could patch things up. I wish I was more help.

2006-10-03 21:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Look if she were a really good friend of yours then you need to apologize for whatever the reason may be. I will tell you good friends are hard to come by these days cause hoes are messy and will smile in your face and f*** your man. That'sjust reality if she really means that much to you as a friend then you 2 need to resolve the issue and move on.

2006-10-03 21:17:07 · answer #3 · answered by $Foxy Diva$ 2 · 0 0

Friends always have arguments. Eventually you to will makeup and be friends again. Trust me I went through the same, me and my best friend use to argue all the time but we always manage to be friends again and just learn from our mistakes. If you argue about something serious like she stoled your boyfriend or something like that, its normal to be hurt by that because she has invaded your trust as a best friend. I think the best thing to do is forgive her and if you two arent ment to be friends then yall are not ment to be friends. I hope everything goes well :-)

2006-10-03 21:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by Angel06 2 · 0 0

I have lost a good friend after 17 years and it was difficult. It was like a death. It just takes time. I wish I could offer better advice, but it is heartbreaking. Each day, it gets better.

2006-10-03 21:14:46 · answer #5 · answered by camping_girl 4 · 0 0

You didn't lose a really good friend, y'all just got into an argument.
As time passes wounds heal, so may your friendship.

My really good friend of 26 years was killed in an accident last month...now I lost a really good friend.

2006-10-03 21:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

u dont' have to forget. u don't have to try to forget or ignore the thing. its time which will heal.

don't feel sorry about it. cause, if a small arguement can change her view towards you. think ... life is long and at every test your freindship would fail. THAT WOULD HURT MORE, not this one.

but you konw what? i don't agree with my answer just now.
try to talk to her one more try. But don't say sorry if its not your mistake. that will ruin everything between you.

2006-10-03 21:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by coldfish85 2 · 0 0

been there, done that... i know how u feel... i've lost so many friendships this year alone. It takes time to heal, but it'll get better. and who knows? maybe you'll become friends again. I fight w/ friends all the time, and we are always close the next minute.

2006-10-03 21:32:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It really does depend if you actually want to move on there's many differents ways but if you really don't want to move on then try to talk it out with her and figure out why you two are not friends. or if you really want to move on try finding a couple new friends and hang out with them or try not to think about her too much it helps.

2006-10-03 21:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

to loose a true good friend is like the end of a marriage sometimes its worse cos you spend more time with the friend ......you will and just be more careful about getting to close if they can row with you where they a good friend /

2006-10-03 21:17:18 · answer #10 · answered by michellefluff 2 · 0 0

Do you want to move on ? You could always try telling her you are sorry. Otherwise, start hanging out with groups of girls/guys your age and you'll hook up fast enough. Good Luck! :)

2006-10-03 21:14:14 · answer #11 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0 0

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