I am in USA and I return to my home country in 4 weeks. My boyfriend and I broke up 3 weeks ago and haven't spoken since and I don't want to get back together, but I have so much anxiety about when I see him. Is it better to just get it over and done with as soon as I can? He is already seeing someone else (I think) and I am scared that if I see them out together I will get upset. He is a good guy just not good for me. We had been together for 4 1/2 years HELP!!!!
2006-10-03 14:05:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do what you think is best. If you can handle seeing him than see him if not then don't do put yourself under unnecessary stress for no reason and good luck in whatever you decide.
2006-10-03 14:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by KEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a long time to be with someone. And I would say that if he's already moved on, then maybe it's time you move on too.
It will be hard to see him at first and to see him with someone new, but that might just be because you were together for so long. Think how weird it would be for HIM to see you on the arm of some new hot man!!
The heart takes time to heal. Just take your time. Good luck.
2006-10-03 21:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by NannersK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a good idea, and it seems like you realize that too. It's best to just move on and get over it, it seems as though he has already.
2006-10-03 21:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by PrettyProblem 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO , Why would you even ask this kind of question , unless you aren't sure you don't want to get back with him ? If you've already gotten closure on this , then I suggest you let it go .....If not see him and tell him it's really over and move on with your life.....GOOD_LUCK !
2006-10-03 21:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by jacks_girl618 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just get over with because sooner or later you are going to have to see him. And if you can't see him with another girl then maybe you still might have feelings for him.
2006-10-03 21:08:59 · answer #5 · answered by mickey_ds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal feelings and I wouldn't visit as it is too soon. Keep yourself very busy!!!
2006-10-03 21:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say No! And by the way, I love you too! - Johnny Knoxville
2006-10-04 16:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
2006-10-03 21:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by deadshscott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
!!!!!!!!!NO!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-03 21:08:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋