We recently broke up about two months ago and we never completely left each other alone. About a month ago he told me that he does not like his new girlfriend and wants to get back with me. He still hasnt left her alone and says he is going to but its so hard because she cries all the time and just give him time all the while still sleeping with me. He tells me he thinks about me all the time etc. Hes basically trying to get her to break up with him. If i knew that the girl i was in love with was willing to get back with me I woul ddrop her I dont care how much she acts sad they havent been together that long and shes already telling him she loves him. The longer they stay together the harder it will be to break it off. he says the reason he got with her was to keep his mind off me but it didnt work and now he realizes he dont want to be with no one else.
2006-10-03 13:58:29 · 14 answers · asked by michelle m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I believe you are absolutely right in saying if he is really in love with you he should have dropped her right away because nothing gets in the way of love. Especially not a girl he is not in love with. I believe he is playing with you both. He wants to have both of you without ever having to commit to either of you. If he loves you he will be there if not then he's not for you. Sorry that truth sometimes can hurt but it also can save you from worst things in the future. Speaking of expierence.
2006-10-03 14:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by jaaaam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is NOT a healthy relationship, and you should do anything possible to get out of it. He is not mature enough to see what is wrong with the situation, and therefore you shouldn't involve yourself. Don't look for a new boyfriend to keep your mind off him (like he did) - that will never have a good outcome.
Realize that by having sexual contact with someone who is openly sleeping with someone else you are putting yourself at risk for a variety of sexually transmitted diseases. Five years from now you'll look back and realize it wasn't worth it, so do yourself a favor and leave him now before something bad happens.
2006-10-03 21:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by akflame81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey i think he's playing mind games with you... If he really wanted to be with he would break up with his new girlfriend with no hesitation don't let him fool you by telling you different... So who cares if she cries that's life, you get your heartbroken sometimes she'll get over.. Obviously he's just trying to you use as A booty call when he wants some... Don't do anything with him until he breaks it off with his new girlfriend... Tell him if he really loves you he'll break up with her today and leave her alone But if anything i suggest you go out and meet new people and your find someone mature enough to handle your love with out playing games Good Luck
2006-10-03 21:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Megan N MaRc~* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl..how would you feel if you were his g/f and you knew he was messing around with someone else?? Your 'man' should grow a pair and just tell her it's over if he wants to be with you.
And if he's willing to mess around with you when he's 'with' her, how can you trust him to be faithful to you??
Think long and hard about getting back together with him. It might be comfortable to be with him, but he's an EX for a reason. Don't forget that.
Good luck.
2006-10-03 21:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by NannersK 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont waste your time on him, he does not deserve you... If he can't tell that girl that everything is over between him and her then how do you know he really means what he says. It looks like he says things but doesn't do what he says.
2006-10-03 21:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by Krasavitsya 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The man apparently has no conscience. The situation with him and the other woman, will probably be one you will have to deal with again, and again.
I would not want him and would not consider taking him back.
You can do better!!!
2006-10-03 21:03:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are too close to a really idiotic situation and you need to get some distance from both of those people.
2006-10-03 21:00:58 · answer #7 · answered by Cattlemanbob 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want him back.. Tell him to dump the other chick. And you don't wanna hear a word from him tell he does!
2006-10-03 21:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by mr.longshot 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has his cake and he is eating it too! You are inadvertently playing second fiddle and as long as you are willing to be second best, that is all you will ever be.
2006-10-03 21:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl if he wants to be with you as bad as he say he does then he would've broken up with her by now. I agree with you totally.
2006-10-03 21:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by nattabomb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋