Today at work, my husband whom I'ved been separated for 4 months asked me if I would take him back should I or not? Well I don't know why his asking me but I think the other women who has being cheating with behind my back just boot him out so please help I need some advice on what should I do.
2006-10-03 13:49:24 · 12 answers · asked by Hawaiianlady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well I really like your answers to the question but I should've let you guys know that we have four children and they really love their dad. I know it's not good to go back just for the kids but in some ways I still love him but since i'ved being going out and having time for myself I'm recently talking to a guy and I think I like him I really don't know what to do.
2006-10-03 14:02:25 · update #1
So now he wants to come back...when it's convenient for him? I suggest u don't rush it and enjoy being alone for a while. I know u still love him but in order for it to work out, he has to be willing to earn back your trust and not cheat again.
2006-10-03 14:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No !!!! It doesn't matter if you have kids. Children know how their parents really and if they are hiding something. So they will feel like they are responsible for any other future problems you guys may have. Further more it sounds like he is only coming back to you because his other lady put him out.
When you throw out your garbage and the trash man picks it up
do you go to the dump and get it back because you weren't sure if you were through with it NOT!!!!!!
2006-10-03 21:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by Htnspyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT. I was with a man like that, and I kept taking him back, because I felt I loved him. But he just kept doing it - leaving me high and dry when he'd cheat again. I know part of you wants too - but DON'T. He will know for sure, that it's ok to crap on you whenever he pleases!! Trust me - you deserve better. And you won't find it taking him back.
2006-10-03 21:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by Kristen G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy who cheats or abuses you will rarely change. I think you're better off without him. At least make him do twenty counseling sessions with you first. If he won't agree to that, he won't be trying to change.
2006-10-03 20:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by Danger, Will Robinson! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids didn't matter when he cheated on you the first time did it? Girl , wake up and realize he is a dog.
2006-10-03 21:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give ya something to think on here , how could you trust him again? If he cheated once , why would he not cheat twice? Better think and re-think this one. Why even reconsider this once you have already been through it , why put yourself at risk to go through it again?
2006-10-03 20:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont go back with him, he is most likely just asking till he finds another one to leave you for,
2006-10-03 20:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go back....he did it once and will do it again....he didnt care about you when he cheated on you...so why should you even take him back....dont make the same mistake twice.
2006-10-03 20:52:35 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it might be worth a try and see if u can get things worked out!! He might understand now how much he misses his kids and u ..
2006-10-03 21:06:46 · answer #9 · answered by lilmissthang025 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, second choice! Don't think I could live with that!
2006-10-03 21:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by wecair2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋