2006-10-03 13:20:56 · 31 answers · asked by amysitsoo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, act like it doesn't bother you anymore, but you should appologize for what mean things you may have said that you didn't mean. Even if it wasn't his birthday, you should always apologize, and when I say you I mean the general person. My hubby and I have fights and wake up feeling better, but we still appologize to each other. Then, bake him some pisbury cinnamon rolls, eggs, pour him a glass of OJ and serve him breakfast in bed! I love doing that for my Hubby, it makes him feel special and extra loved!!!!
2006-10-03 13:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by afafae25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never act like nothings happened. That will only allow it to fester and become a bigger problem. If it was a major fight that can't be resolved quickly call a truce. Like the type of fights that happen over money. But if it was a silly fight like him leaving the toilet seat up. Tell him that it's done with and let it go. You have the rest of your lives to work out problems. Just try to make today special.
2006-10-03 13:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by kholbee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what the fight was about. If you caught him sleeping with your best friend, well there is no salvaging this birthday. If it was something comparitively more trivial just keep in mind how you would feel if your husband carried a grudge through your birthday. No one has ever said that you can't have make up sex and birthday sex at the same time.
2006-10-03 13:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by hcgep 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember that no matter who you are with you will have disagreements and some will be much worse than others. If it's your husband's birthday and you typically celebrate it then you should absolutely continue that tradition! Regardless of who's fault it is, maybe you should try going to him on his birthday and say "I'm sorry we fought but just know that I love you", give him his cake, card, etc and celebrate! If you choose not to then it just shows that you're building up a grudge when does him or yourself no good. Have fun and celebrate!
2006-10-03 13:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by Bill B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't have to act like nothing happened. but it is his birthday and you love him. what ever you fought about you can talk about later. But dont' forget his birthday all couples fight but you love him so show him.
and don't discuss whats wrong on his birthday let there be peace and let him enjoy . and maybe in a few days he'll come around and see you really do love and care for him and he'll ask you about it.
2006-10-03 22:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well depends on how serious the fight was. If it wasn't important then ignore it and if it was really important then still ignore it for today, but bring it up another day if the fight needs conclusion. Otherwise, I agree, forget and forgive.
2006-10-03 16:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by Krystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what the fight was about. If you were fighting because he cheated on you for example, then no, dont pretend nothings wrong. But if it was something little like he forgot to put the toilet seat down, set it aside and deal with it tomorrow.
2006-10-03 13:24:53 · answer #7 · answered by missie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
missing your hubby's birthday is a big deal. even if you had the fight last night and even if you are still mad don't let the day go by without at least saying happy birthday. trust me, it'll help both of you get over it quicker.
2006-10-03 13:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the fight go, forgive and make up! Chances are he doesn't remember half or none anyways. I have learned the hard way after being married for 23 years!!
2006-10-03 13:25:17 · answer #9 · answered by poet_by_nature 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends what the fight was about if it was one of those things thats not such a big deal then maybe it would be best to forgive and forget but if it was a major issue then no dont let it go just cause its his birthday you need to settle it reguardless of the day
2006-10-03 13:24:49 · answer #10 · answered by lisaisfunn1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋