2006-10-03 13:08:35 · 14 answers · asked by lovespell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yep.
2006-10-03 13:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having dinner with someone is not technically cheating. The question is why didn't you tell your husband? Is your husband really jealous and would make a big deal about you having dinner with a male friend? Or could it be that you didn't tell him because it may not be so innocent?
2006-10-03 13:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's certainly not being honest with your husband! It's definitely not a good idea for promoting the health of your marriage to be dishonest with your husband. Plus, "friendly dinners" can turn into more before you know it - just not a good idea! If you have to ask if something's cheating, it probably is!
2006-10-03 13:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by retrogirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first response would have been to say no its not cheating. However, if you look at it another way.....
If your husband had lunch with an attractive female & didn't tell you about it, but you found out anyway..... Would you consider he's cheating on you or would you believe that old line.. Oh honey, she's just a friend....
Personally it would be hard for me to believe she's just a friend. So, I wouldnt have a lunch with my guy friend without my hubby knowing...
2006-10-03 13:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is cheating cause it is just a normal dinner. actually you can tell your husband truely that you are meeting a guy friend for dinner. YOu wont know, maybe someone see you with a guy and inform your husband then you need to explain to his. this wil cause problem and arguement...
2006-10-03 13:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never keep secrets from him.. Lets just say by chance he walked by or a friend of his did. and with you not explaining yourself what would you think he suspects. if in doubt always check this rule out if the shoe was on the other foot and you passed by a restaurant and saw him with another woman and he didn't tell you. your mind would be swirling around with ideas.
Always good to say honey catching up with a old friend or a busines partner what ever the real reason is.. If he finds out on his own. He will feel he can't trust you and will lead him to think what else is she hiding from me then you got more problems later on.
2006-10-03 22:34:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
each guy i be attentive to (my husband, my father, my brothers) all have their secret stashes of porn. that's basically a common guy undertaking. My husband and his buddies proportion "the %. of the day" on line (in many situations some bare woman with huge pretend breasts). To me it looks such as you're over-reacting, even in spite of the indisputable fact which you might have appeared to work out who the bare photograph grow to be despatched from. If that's extremely from a guy chum, that's no huge deal. If a woman is sending photos of herself bare, THEN it extremely is a great deal. that's in all probability only the hormones... attempt to not over-react, till you're particular there's a darn stable reason. Peace & advantages
2016-10-01 21:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you wouldn't tell your husband strongly suggests that the dinner is friendlier than you let on and that you are merely looking for empowerment in this forum.
2006-10-03 13:14:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A friendly dinner, pleasant conversation, a few glasses of wine,
he compliments you on how great you look, you are all aglow,
and bingo.......here comes the regret, how am I gonna tell him...
OMG i can't tell him, he will never believe me.... So I guess it
boils down to who is doing the "considering".
2006-10-03 17:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by RiverRat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i wouldnt do it bc i wouldnt want nothing started between me and my husband. i mean it may not be so bad if you your husband and maybe his girlfriend or something went but no i dont think you should go by urself with him that will cause to much trouble
2006-10-03 13:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends. If the idea of your guy friend penetrating you someday is appealing, then it might not be cheating but is not a good idea nonetheless.
2006-10-03 13:19:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋