i was just wonderign because you don't see that very often,it's usually the other way around like black men dating white girls and nobody says anything about that, but as soon as you see a black girl with a white men then people got something to say especially black men themselves... talking about ''you think you're too good to date a black men and you a traitor'' i just don't get why black men can date white girls but black women can't date a white men...it's not fair.
2006-10-03 12:58:32 · 17 answers · asked by Gorgeous 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I believe it's perfectly all right for a black woman to date a white man if the two love and/or respect each other.
2006-10-03 13:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by MNL_1221 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can date whoever you want, Chinese, Native American, Arab, but however, be careful when dating a White person because Blacks and Whites have the worst history, or should I say, present, together.
Forget all the PC b.s. Lots of Whites only date Blacks out of curiousity, boredom, or to gain control of Blacks if they cannot otherwise do it in society. Or they want cute kids but will say their cuteness certainly did not come from your race, even though it did. Or they like good Black sexual intercourse but don't really like Black people. They may only see you as a sexual prostitution tool and not as a human. And sometimes White people who date Blacks think they have somehow been elected "speaker" for the entire Black race.
It's hard to find a good White man or woman unless they were born in a cool country like Canada or Sweden. But tread carefully with American Whites.
2006-10-03 16:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, the color of a persons skin means absolutley nothing. If you found a nice guy who happens to be white, or Native, or chinese, or any race, be with him. Don't worry what other people think, it will get you no where in life, just do what you feel is right :)
Good Luck with your relationship
2006-10-03 13:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No i think they should do it more often,i've seen plenty of black girls with white guys,and in fact knew one that would only date white guys and had never had a black boyfriend.
2006-10-03 13:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
no nothing is wrong with it at all,, you are right though u do not see it all that often,,,i have seen it and they are very happy together...people have a negative bias against it probably because they see the woman as rejecting there black proud manhood...or something
2006-10-03 13:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by coopchic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with it. As long as they are treating each other with respect, honesty, etc., like any other couple dating on earth. If one of my sons were dating a nice, honest, no-head-games kind of girl I wouldn't care what color she was.
2006-10-03 13:32:30 · answer #6 · answered by grannyhuh 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do what you want to do and feel comfortable doing dont let anyone tell you its wrong to date who you feel is right for you. who really gives a flying poop who dates who now days anyway. (ps i know how you feel cuz i still get it. i am a white girl who dates a wonderful black man) this is how i run my life.
2006-10-03 13:23:26 · answer #7 · answered by kayro3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. My friends Brian (white) and Brandi (black) have been going out for almost a year and they're cool to me.
2006-10-03 13:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by PJ 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong as far as I can see you're right about the way it usually is though!
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2006-10-03 13:02:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because people are bigots? Because they're afriad of what's different? Do what YOU want. Date the person you want and be strong and proud.
2006-10-03 13:01:16 · answer #10 · answered by QuickQuestion 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋